argann Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Mid Oct she wanted space to figure things out (she's fresh out of a 2 year marriage) and we dated for 6-8 months. I'm 32 she's 25. I said no problem let me know when you've had your time and space and when you figure things out give me a call. I also said come pickup your things from my house. Well no love on the getting her stuff yet. I talked to her prior to turkey day, and she said she would that week....ha...of course no luck yet. I just got back from a week long trip. So yesterday she sends me an email "so I guess you changed your mind on being friends". She mostly talked over txt/email unless we were hanging out together. Impersonal I know but I think it's her protection and way to avoid conflict. She wanted the space and said she'd call me to schedule a time to get her stuff....no call yet so I think the ball is in her court. Yeah I want it out of my house but I don't want it to turn into drama. Just get it so she can get on to missing me. ha Yeah I would like to date until I know she's over her marriage and take things slow building into something better. I don't want to be a crutch for obvious reason but yes I would like to get together. I plan on not responding until she calls me or shows up at my house like she hasn't something to say. Obviously her wheels are turning. Any thoughts from the group? Thanks as always!
NopeNah Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 If you know where she's staying and her schedule, drop the stuff there while shes at work. In the meantime pack it all in a box and put it out of site.
Author argann Posted December 9, 2009 Author Posted December 9, 2009 Got that. I put it in the garage last month before my trip thinking she'd come get it. Just trying to work how to not be a jerk (from her perception) and not just roll up and say I'm out side come get it. We work for the same company so giving it back is easy. Want to give it back in a way she knows this is the real deal. Thanks!
Recommended Posts