nobmagnet Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Hello all, here I am. just getting over stbxh and woosh........meet a vey sexy guy. I am not looking for love.I am deffo not looking for a relationship. so here I am getting over one failed relationship trying to be cool waiting for himto call/text. W T F am i doing to myself??????? im very angry with myself. It was just supposed to be sex no strings but i have realised its not. distraction? yes for a while. healthy? No. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
puppydog Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 (edited) not sure what to say but giggle (sorry couldn't help myself) I'm curious as to what the advice people would give here. Ahem. In all honesty though you should give yourself time to just be by yourself and heal. Reflect back on the old relationship and see where you went wrong, take responsibility for it and when you're emotionally available THEN you should go for it. Granted... Distractions are all well and good while you’re pining over another; but every so often the line between distraction and potential appears paper-thin. Edited December 9, 2009 by puppydog
sean1970 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 im very angry with myself. Why? It was just supposed to be sex no strings but i have realised its not. Because new guy likes you? distraction? yes for a while. healthy? No. Sex for women (generally) is not just sex. The emotional component always seem greater for them. Do you really want to deal with that too? If he is worth the wait, he will.
Author nobmagnet Posted December 9, 2009 Author Posted December 9, 2009 hahahhah, just writing the thead made me realise what an idiot I am being! hey wouldnt say no to a meaningless sh*g tho! oooooooh i am awful! hahhaahah
puppydog Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 We all cope in different ways. Just be safe.
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