FabulousLadee Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Me and my ex have a history of drama. We were together for a year and "OFFICIALLY" broke up last November 08 BUT we went through that off/on stage all of 2009. We tried at it again for the VERY VERY last time the last week in October 09 and I told him that was it. I even got a tattoo on my wrist saying to never go back…that’s how hard it’s been for me. We got into a really big argument on Halloween and I officially removed myself from the situation. The last word that came out of my mouth to him was “F?#$ You!” I was sooo hurt. He has tried to reach out to me through text mssging, emails, and a couple of phone calls since then but I haven’t responded. It’s been about a month and some change since we’ve last spoken. His birthday is coming up this weekend and he sent me a text mssg this past Friday inviting me to his party. It wasn’t specifically to me..it was subjected to “Family and Friends” but my instincts tell me that he MEANT to send that to me. He tried texting me late Sunday night AND Monday afternoon but just text “Hello”. Like..what am I supposed to say back to that?! To be honest with you all…after all we have been through in the last 2 years..I still love him very much and I’m still in love with him…so I WANT to go to the party. BUT I question his sincerity and if there is a motive. What if he just wants to see if I’ll come? What if he has a date or another interest there? Should I contact him and just ask him? Or should I just show up? Or not go at all? And his family and friends are going to be there..who know me..and know that I’m the EX?! I just don’t want to be humiliated. What should I do?!!!!!!
NopeNah Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Don't go. Why set yourself up for more torture? You got that tattoo as a reminder what not to do,correct?
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