Lucas1963 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Found this sight probably way to late but I'm impressed by the honesty that gets laid out here. Me, mid 40's, her same, her 3rd marriage, my 2nd. Love at first sight, etc...she had 2 kids by seperate marriages I had one by mine. Things were pretty good, in five years we had built a tremendous life, I built us a beautiful home and bought into a dream she had a built and built an awesome business. In late March she went to see her nurse practitioner and for still unknown reasons she put her on 160mg per day of Prozac(2 times the highest maximum). Yes it was a mistake. Around April 10th her whole demeanor changed, she became apathetic, emotionless and her libido fell to the floor. On April 22nd she came into my office and told me she wanted a divorce for all sorts of reasons, it was bizarre...i barely even recognized her. Understand I knew nothing of the Prozac. I gave in and my son and I moved out...over the last six months it s been a hellish rollercoaster as she has gone thru tremendous changes. I found out about the Prozac in late May and forced her nurse to talk to me, she immediately called her in and changed her scrip which proved disasterous. I feel soooo sorry for her, but I have never been able to convince her that the drug could have started this all. I'm no saint.....3 years ago I had a short affair that hurt EVERYONE in my family terribly and I will always regret it. BUT we had overcome it even as late as Feb we had planned a trip to re-affirm our vows. Our divorce was final on Thursday, but we still have to work together for at least awhile. She says she still loves me and in many ways I still love her, but its tough and obviously NC won't work. Has anyone ever been in this kind of situation and can suggest how to try and at least work side by side? Thank you in advance
hopesndreams Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Just goes to show one shouldn't stay with a cheater. It's all down to you that she is drugged up, you do know that right?
Author Lucas1963 Posted December 10, 2009 Author Posted December 10, 2009 Thanks.....that may or may not be the case. And just as an FYI, two years into our relationship she cheated on me, no we weren't married at the time but..... You have given me something to think about.
stayingstrong12 Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 well then you both are cheaters and you should have known it wasnt going to work out, cuz really no relationship does when ppl cheat cuz they lose the trust.
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