kimmi Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 What are the things that your ex did not bring to the relationship that you realized while you were with them that were important to you. for me it is -romance -communication -understanding
Zansatsu Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Yours + -commitment -openness (historical and emotional) -reliability (emotional and financial) -empathy -affection
ItsAllGoodAgain Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 -Shared Moral values -Communication -Same Intimacy level
Art_Critic Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 poll: what are things that you MUST have in a relationship ?? A partner is always a good start
Author kimmi Posted December 9, 2009 Author Posted December 9, 2009 A partner is always a good start HA HA no kidding hey..
silic0ntoad Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Respect. Honesty. Morality. Everything else after those three things simply falls in line.
trueblue72ny Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 being open honest communicating making you feel important respect passion romance understanding
TaraMaiden Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Respect. Honesty. Morality. Everything else after those three things simply falls in line. Not nece3ssarily: Respect Trust Communication Effort and Commitment. Without any one of the first three, the relationship won't work. Without the last two, the first three are on shifting sands. These underpin the Love, affection and sensuality in a relationship. Without these 5 - it's a non-starter.
So_Sick78 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 -Respect -Trust -Understanding -Communication -Empathy
puppydog Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 What everyone else seems to have: Respect Trust Communication Commitment Religion (same) Affection
thatguy90 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 For me: Trust Communication Enjoying each other company Respect Determination (By that if something goes wrong, just don't dump the guy/girl)
XKatieX Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Trust- big one for me Communication Respect Commitment
Eve Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Faith Integrity Fashion sense Common sense Good hygiene Realistic career goals Love of nature Spontaneous in nature Good house keeping Not at ease with himself/no self efficacy Take care, Eve xx
HeavenOrHell Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Can't think of much tbh Except; I wanted to hold hands when we were out and he didn't so much, he's shy with that sort of thing Outdoor sex Would have been nice to have had a hobby to share, we had lots of similar interests but not many hobbies we did together as such.
TaraMaiden Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Faith Integrity Fashion sense Common sense Good hygiene Realistic career goals Love of nature Spontaneous in nature Good house keeping Not at ease with himself/no self efficacy Take care, Eve xx For the most part, these are changeable on a whim, moveable feasts.... what you are looking for is solid foundations, that are strengthened as time goes by, rather than weakened..... The only one that should be steadfast, of the list you mention, is Integrity. Which comes under Trust..... it takes someone with Integrity to trust honestly. Dishonest trust is Guilt dressed as a hooker......
bluestraps Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 #1 Communication #2 Patience #3 Appreciation
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