Ace09 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 We've been broken up for about a month. We got into a huge argument, that i take much blame for and she broke up with me. A week later when I told her I want to drop her things of asap, she said to come over and have sex. This happened a couple times in the second week after breakup. Then she's talking to me on IM saying how she doesn't want to sleep alone, I went to her place, did our thing and cuddled together ect. We've chatted a few times since on aim, and the other night she wanted to talk on the phone, we talked and again tonight she asked to talk on the phone. I love her and care about her deeply but I'm thinking to myself what is there to talk about? I feel like with the distance that's grown between us I have little interest in getting back together. It's extremely difficult to be involved emotionally while she's sleeping with other men. I would have liked to get back together, but at this point I;m willing to have sex with her (we had the greatest sex life) but considering her history I don't want to be involved in her life or involved emotionally unless we are together. I was close to telling her tonight I care for her deeply but unfortunately I can no longer be there for her as a friend or otherwise.
JL911 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Well, you have your options...shes using you till something better comes along... So you either beat her to the punch and get away now, or hang on till youre tossed aside...
Ray19 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 I haven't with my ex since we broke up but if she wanted to I probably would and then I'd feel like crap later. I just miss her. I just want to kiss her everywhere and make love like we use to. What the f is wrong with me
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