reneex061 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 so my ex and i have been dating on and off for the past 3 years. he broke up with me about, 2 weeks ago. and monday was the last time him and i were friends and talked..and he mentioned this girl he hung out with, and i asked him if he liked her and he told me no. and i got upset and he could tell so he tried making me laugh and was trying to make me feel better. welll, after that we had got into an argument and he told me he no longer wanted to be friends. days later, i asked him if him and that girl were talking and he got very mad and told me its none of my business and that i didnt need to know..few days after that he randomly text me and throw it in my face that they were talking..it was very rude if you ask me. well i guess him and that girl are now officially together. literally a week ago, he told me that he didnt like her like that and they were just friends but now hes dating her? it doesnt make any sense to me. how can he just move on so quickly and start dating someone else? after being with me for 3 years? ive talked to many friends about this and they all told me that she is just his rebound and he is looking for someone to just fill the hole for now. but like i dont understand it at all and it hurts me. also the girl he is dating, is his friends ex..and her and her ex were dating for a long time and had just recently broken up. i know that she really loved him, so now she is all of a sudden over him? ugh any advice please? this is really killing me. i hope they arent together for very long and that she just is a rebound to him.
XKatieX Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 It doesn't really sound like they are dating. I mean he said he was just talking to her and he didn't like her like that. If he said they were just friends I would just leave it be for now. If you continue to press him on it, it will only push him away further. Give him NC for a while if you want to think about things, and maybe he will come around.
Author reneex061 Posted December 9, 2009 Author Posted December 9, 2009 It doesn't really sound like they are dating. I mean he said he was just talking to her and he didn't like her like that. If he said they were just friends I would just leave it be for now. If you continue to press him on it, it will only push him away further. Give him NC for a while if you want to think about things, and maybe he will come around. on the girls facebook it says "in a relationship with ____(this name)" so they are together then :/ i only asked him once if they were talking and thats it, like a week ago. i havent text him for a few days and i dont plan on it. normally when he upsets me i would text him and say something, and i bet he is waiting for me to say something to him about them dating, but i havent.
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