xerofate Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 She is very ill in the hospital. I found out about he new guy while she was in the ED, and she continued to lie about it until I confronted her with proof from her phone. (yeah, I know... but I figured if there was nothing in there she wouldn't know I went through it, but if there was something then at least I would have the truth.) Is it ok to text her? I'm scared she will think I don't care at all, which isn't the case, obviously. I do care about her, she is the mother of my child. I miss her and love her and I am so scared that she is going to die, they don't knwo what is wrong with her...... But friends are telling me that I shouldn't contact her first. I'm out of the info loop, the only information I know is what her father told my parents when he dropped off our daughter for babysitting. This isn't fair. I care about her soooo much, why should I be left in the dark? Should I text her in the morning to see how she is doing, or should I just wait to see if she texts me? She told me she would call me today, but she never did....... So confused, and don't know what to do. Please, please help.
Ronni_W Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 If she is so ill to the extent that you think she's dying, then I'm not sure that she will get your text message. You could send a small plant or arrangement of flowers, and sign the card from your daughter and you. You can also call your daughter's grandfather, to offer support and ask if there is anything you can do to help. Since you do have a child with her, there is that family tie that is okay to acknowledge...especially in times of crisis. I miss her and love her and I am so scared that she is going to die, they don't knwo what is wrong with her...... This isn't fair. I care about her soooo much, why should I be left in the dark? Yeah. I wouldn't bother to share those types of self-victimizing thoughts with your daughter's grandfather, though. If his daughter is as ill as your post suggests, he's not going to need any added drama in his life. Right? OTOH, if you KNOW that she is well enough to text, then wait for her to contact you.
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