innocenttears Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 He went to his friends, got really drunk and kissed some girl. He also went to his friends the next night and didn't tell me. So lots of lies, he used to always lie in the past, about tiny things that were soo stupid, like he wouldn't be doing anything wrong, but he just wouldn't mention stuff he had done. So basically he has a problem with lying, when there is no need. We are on a break now, becuause i didn't want us to be over. It's our 2 year anniversary next week and iv'e been looking foward to it for so long. Basically, he seems so regretful and stuff and cried and apologised but he doesn't seem 100% like doing anything/everything to get me back. If i had done this i would do ANYTHING to get him back. One minute i want to just say it's all in the past and just start a fresh, because i don't want us to be over. The next i want to make him realise how much he has hurt me and make him feel bad and miss me loads so he appreciates me more, so not see him for a while. And lastly sometimes i feel like just cutting my losses and leaving him. Basically i think it would be best to make him realise how much he could miss me and appreciate me and not take me for granted. But it's so hard not to contact him. What should i do????
tryagaintoday Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Hi innocenttears, I think it's good for both of you to be on this break - give yourselves some time to think things through. As for your end, I suggest you don't pin all hope on getting back together. Spend the time you have or something else you always wanted to do - pick up some skills or hobby. If and when he comes back to you, you can evaluate if he is truly sincere. It is your call. Hope this at least helps you a little.
betrayed2 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Agreed, go out and do things you enjoyed doing before you met him. You might be surprised at how happy you are without him.
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