Zeegagge Posted December 8, 2009 Posted December 8, 2009 I'm going to try and keep this short. Together 3 1/2 years, engaged even. Towards the end she starts talking more and more about breaking up. We had already decided we were moving to a tropical island together and we did, but as soon as we got here, broke up. Im upset about this, it been a little over a month now and still have to be around her all the time. During this time I havent been desperate, been trying my best to win her attraction back, but she's so far gone that nothing is working. I've been hiding my tears and coming off as super confident as best I can. Neither of us have another place to go right now and to make matters worse now she's hooking up with a chick! We made a rule I dont bring girls home she wont bring guys, so she brings a girl. Great. How do I deal with being around what I've lost every day!!??
dietpepsi Posted December 8, 2009 Posted December 8, 2009 Do you think it is a possibility she may have realized that she is gay, and that may have attributed to your breakup?
LexiB Posted December 8, 2009 Posted December 8, 2009 I dont know exactly how to get you through having to be around her all the time but I do know for sure that you should not have to deal with her bringing her dates home - male or female. Just because you haven't suddenly turned gay and decided to bring men home doesnt give her the right to bring chicks home with her. It is COMPLETELY disrespectful!!! Remember, it's your house too. Gotta put your foot down on this one.
Author Zeegagge Posted December 10, 2009 Author Posted December 10, 2009 She's not gay, not even bi really, she just happened to really really connect to this chick, in a way we used to connect years ago. The girl is a lesbian who apparently only dates straight girls and has brought many of them to her. They've already decided that they're moving in together, after a month. Whatever this s*** has gone from weird to downright retarded (no offense to the mentally disabled). She'll probably realize one day this thing has no future and it will end eventually. Unlike what all my friends seem to think Im certain she's not going to be coming back to me on that day. She's too far gone for that. Whatever, it was a weird vibe between us anyway. I just gotta work on getting out of here and finding someone new. Just can't stand having it in my face all the time. Well I have found some new ones but none that really wow me yet. ::sigh:: Tonight's a new night.
LovelyDaze Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 First off..... Second, you all need to see if there is a way to get out of living together some way and some how. That is horrifying. Third, I am utterly speechless. Is this a game she is playing or what?
Author Zeegagge Posted December 12, 2009 Author Posted December 12, 2009 The craziness just goes on and on. Now these two are claiming to be in love and they are moving in together (after a month). Then last night they got in a huge fight in our house and were slapping each other and all this other insanity. Three hours later I hear my ex crying loudly from the bedroom. This morning everyone wakes up and the two of them are back to the same old lovey dovey and off to a local resort together. I see potential for problems all over their relationship but I also know that when two people are that crazy about each other they work through things. No chance of us ever getting back together. Oh well. It'll soon be a new night and there's a Christmas Festival going on in town.
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