Spanish Posted December 8, 2009 Posted December 8, 2009 (edited) Sorry everyone but I just need to vent and I'm trying to compose myself here. Following from my previous thread where I specify that I have been seeing this guy and he is basically hot and cold... he messages once during the day,I reply and I hear no response from him for an entire day. Sometimes he calls me sometimes he doesnt.. I approached the "what are we subject" and he said lets tlak on Thursday baby becuase this is a subject that has to be brought up face to face, you are important to me and I want to be able to show you and express what I have to say" I know its simple rigtht, just wait till Thursday.. but this "time" is crucial for me becuase I dont want to meet him up just to be blown off... besides that he says he is alwasy too busy with work and lots of things , hence he can't follow up as much as we wish we could talk. It's been since Sunday that I don't hear from him.. You know what I mean.. I want to save myself the pain of having to hear his bs... Would you give him an opportunity and hear what he has to say? Or based on the background would you spare yourself form having to see him again? I mean what is he going to say that he likes me? Great way of showing! I'm a bit anxious I know, but you guys always have a way to knock me back to reality! Edited December 8, 2009 by Spanish
Miss Right Posted December 8, 2009 Posted December 8, 2009 How old are you? That aside, leave it alone. No one is that busy that they can't keep a commitment to speak with someone that's supposedly important to them or not even call about it. Ppl always say that people treat you the way you allow them to treat you, and right now, you're allowing him to treat you like crap. Know your worth and decide whether or not you really think you deserve to be treated like this...I'm going to guess "no." Good luck.
Sharon1961 Posted December 8, 2009 Posted December 8, 2009 I've been where you are and it sucks big time. We allow ourselves to believe that someone might actually care about us in spite of their actions. But what I have come to see is that when you matter to someone you don't have to wonder. This talk isn't necessary and will probably just hurt you. Unless you feel it would do you some good in terms of gaining closure. But he doesn't seem the type to be straight with his thoughts or feelings so you'd have to go into it with that perspective. Ya know?
Author Spanish Posted December 8, 2009 Author Posted December 8, 2009 That's great insight.. I have a gut feeling that he didnt really want to say it on the phone that he is no tlooking for anything serious and let me go becuase he for sure" wants sex" that I can tell , he loves the way Im in the bedroom and I think he might want to sugar coat things on Thursday so he gets to drag me along ... I don't think I'm being selfish , when I say i feel like cancelling and telling him to forget about it.. He just confused me so much "when he siad you are important to me and I want to be able to show it, not to talk about it" but it might be bs..
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