Red Flag Alert!!! Back me up here.

[dudet]

i wonder if this guy is the type that buys lingerie in department stores for himself:lmao:

[Loquacious Miss L.]

LMAO. I don't know. But I did my laundry today to get the memory out of my head.

[Angel1111]

LMAO. I don't know. But I did my laundry today to get the memory out of my head.

 

:laugh:

[dudet]

LMAO. I don't know. But I did my laundry today to get the memory out of my head.

 

but i don't get it. did you actually see him pick them up and sniff them? or could you just tell he had went through your laundry lol

[Loquacious Miss L.]

No, I came back out of the bathroom. He said, "Can I tell you something? I smelled your undies. Boy do they smell good!" I was like, "WTF!"

[Angel1111]

No, I came back out of the bathroom. He said, "Can I tell you something? I smelled your undies. Boy do they smell good!" I was like, "WTF!"

 

I wonder what he expected your reaction to be? What an idiot.

 

You know, after my incident with the psycho boy, I changed the account number on every single credit card I had because I didn't know if he had gone through my purse or not while I was in the bathroom and gotten the numbers. He got a family member's address because I called him once from their phone and he got it off of caller ID - then he got their address and when I broke up with him, he sent them a 10 pg letter that was full of lies. My sister said that her hands were shaking when she read the letter. The guy was certifiable.

[dudet]

No, I came back out of the bathroom. He said, "Can I tell you something? I smelled your undies. Boy do they smell good!" I was like, "WTF!"

 

holy crap lol wtf

 

was he like saying it in a joking type way or like dead serious? either way....weird but joking would make it less bizarre..maybe:sick:

[Loquacious Miss L.]

No really, he was serious. It was bizarre.

[calizaggy]

but i don't get it. did you actually see him pick them up and sniff them? or could you just tell he had went through your laundry lol

 

 

Yeah, i dont get it either.. They didn't have sex, yet he is comfortable enough to express feelings, and go into her bedroom and search for panties? Or she just leaves panties all over the floor?

 

Kind of hard to believe they are just watching a movie (with no sex), she goes to use the bathroom for a second, and he runs into her room,seacrhes for her panties, finds her panties, smells them, then goes back to the couch and tells her he smelled them.. Quite an odd story.

 

or most likely they had sex, her panties were laying right next to him when she left, and he said it as a joke.

[Yukikazi]

Yeah, i dont get it either.. They didn't have sex, yet he is comfortable enough to express feelings, and go into her bedroom and search for panties? Or she just leaves panties all over the floor?

 

Kind of hard to believe they are just watching a movie (with no sex), she goes to use the bathroom for a second, and he runs into her room,seacrhes for her panties, finds her panties, smells them, then goes back to the couch and tells her he smelled them.. Quite an odd story.

 

or most likely they had sex, her panties were laying right next to him when she left, and he said it as a joke.

People do live in studio and convertible apartments.

[Loquacious Miss L.]

Thats not what happened. We were in the bedroom. We had been making out. I had my dirty clothes pile next to the bed. I got up from our makeout session and went to the restroom. I came back, I didn't see him doing it, he offered up the information. It was not a joke, he said, "Don't think I'm weird but I smelled your undies and boy did they smell good!"

[calizaggy]

Thats not what happened. We were in the bedroom. We had been making out. I had my dirty clothes pile next to the bed. I got up from our makeout session and went to the restroom. I came back, I didn't see him doing it, he offered up the information. It was not a joke, he said, "Don't think I'm weird but I smelled your undies and boy did they smell good!"

 

 

Well dont you clean up a little before a guy comes over?

 

You still have just "make out" sessions with guys on the second date in your bedroom and dont want them to think of sex?

[Loquacious Miss L.]

I did have the clothes in a pile. My bad. Sure did just have a makeout session. Yeppers. We had decided to have that and not sex. But the question had to do with underwear not whether or not we had sex. Sure we thought of it though. He was horny and it occurred to him to do that, the thought is that it's WEIRD. That's all.

[calizaggy]

Yes, I would say it is wierd, and I feel you know most people would agree.

 

But it also wierd to invite "wierdos" whom you do not know well into your bedroom just to "make out" on a second date in your bed , and being comfortable enough to leave private items of clothing in piles out in the open.

 

for example, if I am having a woman over, I would make sure I do not have dirty underwear laying around. Unless of course I do it every night with a different woman, and no longer really care what anyone thinks.

[Loquacious Miss L.]

Wow. Okay then, let's move on shall we. Point taken, checkmate on your end, I shall concede to your thoughts if that means you will stop frickin criticizing. Thanks so much. Okie doke.

[Loquacious Miss L.]

But, I'm glad you think it's weird;) I did too. Which was my point.

[Loquacious Miss L.]

I shan't post about underwear or the state of cleanliness in my apartment ever again. But I do have a pair in my living room right now if anyone wants to come over and see them in all their glory;) Just kidding, let me wash them, starch them, and iron them before I put them away. hahahhahahaha.

[dudet]

Yes, I would say it is wierd, and I feel you know most people would agree.

 

But it also wierd to invite "wierdos" whom you do not know well into your bedroom just to "make out" on a second date in your bed , and being comfortable enough to leave private items of clothing in piles out in the open.

 

for example, if I am having a woman over, I would make sure I do not have dirty underwear laying around. Unless of course I do it every night with a different woman, and no longer really care what anyone thinks.

 

but i thought she did say something like she felt extra comfortable with this guy. it does depend on the person, even if it was second date

[Loquacious Miss L.]

I heart you. You must be a woman;)

[calizaggy]

I felt comfortable until he got really moody when he was having ahem, trouble staying aroused when we were making out. .

 

 

Why not just be honest if you want advice? lol

 

So you were "only making out" on your date, in your bed, and he was having troubled staying aroused? What?.

 

Making out to me is kissing.. what is your definition? I guess you tried to have sex but he couldn't keep it up, which is probably why you are bashing him..

[Loquacious Miss L.]

Were you there? Do you know the situation as personally as I do? Do you know me? Do you understand that the situation has to do with red flags such as his moodiness in general? He was moody other parts of the night as well. I've read some of your other responses to people and you are an instigator with a very negative perspective. I got your point like 5 posts ago. Once again let me reiterate this issue: It was kissing and touching and he was frustrated with himself. I am a nice person and would NOT bash someone on that basis.

 

Now, you have your facts. Find another post to pick apart. Thanks.

[calizaggy]

If a guy is merely kissing a girl, why would staying aroused be an issue for frustration? I would think that frustration would only surface if the act of sexual intercourse is about to commence.

[Loquacious Miss L.]

Once again let me reiterate this issue: It was kissing and touching and he was frustrated with himself. (NOTE THE WORD TOUCHING IN THE AFOREMENTIONED RESPONSE.)

 

Now, you have your facts. Find another post to pick apart. Thanks.