Wicker_Parked Posted December 21, 2009 Posted December 21, 2009 That email is stupid, rule no 1. never bring up anything negative - just cos you think you can get better girls, you have already said it to her, why would you want to bring it up again in the email. Its done mate, she is probably in the gym right now toning up and hitting the clubs cos as they say 'dont get mad, get someone hotter' If you told her you can get better then she will do everything in her power to prove that she was the one that got away, no need to remind her...
Author eternal.denied84 Posted December 22, 2009 Author Posted December 22, 2009 nope at this point, no need for words, AT ALL. not even to end it on a "good note" if that's even possible. your best bet is to just simply walk away...quietly. more often than not, it's the silence that makes the loudest statement in the world to them, not the other way around. remember that old saying, "silence is golden" so use that to your advantage. and no worries bout her taking it the wrong way or her thinking you don't care. trust me when i say the opposite will happen. its been proven that no contact will actually make the other person start to wander bout you more, why they not hearing from you, and then they get curious to see whats going on with you and before you know it, they calling you up. so just keep on doing your thing and focus on doing you. after enough time has past you will hear from her again and then you will be in a better frame of mind to decide how you want to proceed with her...keep me posted!!! @lynne..considering you are in the same shoes would you please advice on my below post http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t212513/
bluestraps Posted December 23, 2009 Posted December 23, 2009 Hey , Im not a female. And Ive been through it all. I was dumped for another guy back in 2003 ,I sent a letter to her , an email. she told me later she was touched by it. But I wouldnt send what you wrote. I'd send a love letter not too long not too short. We got back together, but the letter is not the only reason why we got back together. She wasnt happy in her new relationship. Just do it.. nothing you do will change her mind. Either she will be drawn to you or not. As guys we tend to try to fix things by using intelect Women are not logical they are emotional.
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