Author Lost-n-confused Posted December 10, 2009 Author Posted December 10, 2009 I hopes she does. I'm going to wear some tight ass jeans.
dreamergrl Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 First of all... don't wear tight ass jeans. That's not hot. Second of all.. I can't believe you are complaining about a 30 minute drive. You want to date so bad, yet you are freaking over the drive? You had all these great dates planned for the last girl you were pining after, and now this? Not that I believe that a guy should always pay first, but given how you worked your last girl as far as dates... How much fun do you think she's going to have just sitting there watching you bowl?
DustySaltus Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 Lost-n-Confused, I think you have a problem with OVER ANALYZING everything. Dating is expensive. Dinner and a movie in NY can be in upwards of $100. You haven't even met this girl yet and you're doing gas mileage calculations in your head? Are you going to calculate how much it costs each frame of bowling too? RELAX, enjoy yourself. Your friend is giving you a major assist and you're asking about how she will get home before you even meet her? That's not the right attitude. HAVE FUN, it might the best $10.80 you ever spent. However, if she's sitting there while you bowl, offer her to play...
carhill Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 To me, the key is changing his thinking. So far, everything is linear. He doesn't have to wear tight jeans for her to watch his ass. The actual bowling part is a few seconds, then there's drinking and eating and conversation and hand slapping on good shots and laughs at the bad ones. If he likes to bowl, he'll have fun and she can share it. Think of it as meeting for an arranged dinner but at a bowling alley instead of his friends house. If she wants, she can rent shoes and a ball and join in. Now, if they get along, he should ask her out on a date and consider her desires and interests (which he should get a feel for at the bowling alley) at that point and pay for the date. That's my opinion.
Author Lost-n-confused Posted December 13, 2009 Author Posted December 13, 2009 The blind date never happend. She didn't come because she was too broke. I told my firend I'd pay but it was to late he already drove home. I offered to pay his gas to go back but he wouldn't do it. Anyway was at a birthday party for an old firend. Was flirting with a few girls. One very cute girl seemed interest, touched my arm talked about each other got all the typical signs I've read about. Then we got separated by the drunk roommate and before I could get a chance to get her number she left. Later, I told my firend about his roommate blocking me he told me he got worried when he heard her laughing with me. I blocked him. He put his hand out and said game on. I learned two things. First you have to be asertive (right word?). I should of ran after her when I saw her leaving and just asked. Had nothing to loose and everything to gain. Feel kinda bad but there might be another party there next week. Second, it's a hunt.. A compitition. I had the advantage over my firend. I'm much better looking and have alot more going for me. I was also the best dressed and the most sober. So I flirted with some girls. Gained some experence and confidence. I also learned from my mistakes. I need to learn to flirt better. I'm starting to see the trees in the forest.
carhill Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 I'm starting to see the trees in the forest. There ya go. Keep us posted.
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