jchjs Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 I met this man on a social networking site, we emailed back and forth for months many times a day. I feel like we really got to know each other. The emails got steamy at times, felt very close; he talked about moving to be near me. The other day when we were emailing, getting rather steamy again and he forwarded a picture that he had also forwarded to another woman (left the details on the forward). He said she was a former girfriend that emails him occasionally when she gets bored. Would you believe him? I started to feel that he was playing me along with other women, but I don't know if I just jumped to the wrong conclusions. He's ignored a couple of emails I sent to him asking for his honesty. What would you believe?
Yukikazi Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 I wouldn't believe him.. he messed up and is trying to damage repair..
CarrieT Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 I wouldn't believe him.. he messed up and is trying to damage repair.. Totally concur. You aren't the only one he is emailing and in playing the field, he screwed up and crossed his emails from another woman with you. Happened to me once. And only once. Dump him - he got caught and he's not going to come clean, but will continue the lies.
New_Life08 Posted December 8, 2009 Posted December 8, 2009 Busted! LOL. The truth is he simply had too much blood flowing south, and he sent the pic without hiding the other name(s). (was this a sexually explicit pic? Or just a normal pic?) It is similar to chatting, and the other person sends a response that doesn't fit the conversation. Sounds like he is playing the field but doesn't necessarily want you to know that. Think about it...if he was so involved with you he was talking about moving closer yada yada; he is avoiding your emails because either he's working on a good enough excuse he thinks you'll buy, or he knows he totally screwed up and wants to avoid the whole ugly mess. Oh, the beauty of internet dating.
New_Life08 Posted December 8, 2009 Posted December 8, 2009 I forgot to add...if this was just a normal pic of him, I wouldn't worry about it. She is probably just a friend he was sharing the pic with. If it was a sexually explicit pic...I would be much more concerned if I were you.
Author jchjs Posted December 9, 2009 Author Posted December 9, 2009 I forgot to add...if this was just a normal pic of him, I wouldn't worry about it. She is probably just a friend he was sharing the pic with. If it was a sexually explicit pic...I would be much more concerned if I were you. It was a sexually explicit picture. A regular picture would have picked my radar but I think I would have let it go, this however seemed way too much to let go. The problem is I really want to talk to him and I'm having a really hard time resisiting emailing.
xXMarlboro_ManXx Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 At least he sent it to another girl instead of a guy that might make you think twice. It sounds like he is lying to you. One way you could find out is to email his other friend who he sent the picture to and ask her whats up.
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