jaclynxox89 Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Well we work together, in a restaurant.. and im like, in love with him now. he says he loves me and we're always kissing and flirting.. We used to text ALL the time... Last Thursday, they were short and they called me into work, Besides the fact that i need the money, I went in because he was there.. and yeah. I just really wanted to see him, even though I was sick. That whole night, he didn't talk to me. And I usually drive him home when we get out at the same time, at 3am... but he just left.. and didnt say goodnight.. like we usually do. Last night, I was sitting at a booth and the last I seen him was in the kitchen, I thought I was gonna drive him home, but he just blew me a kiss and that was it. He usually just hangs out in the kitchen so I didn't know he was leaving.. I didn't even think he was done yet! And when he is, he usually texts me to come in the back so we can talk, or kiss, or whatever... sooo i dont know. It was weird, because he asked me what time I was done last night.... I really thought I was driving him home!! And thats what I look forward to, because we get to talk alot, and make out Lately, he has been acting different though, I mean we really flirted a lot last night but suddenly, he disappeared. I sent him a text and said: dont know how to say goodnight anymore ;( and he never replied... I guess he thinks nothing of it, but it kinda bothers me. Anything in mind?? Any help is appreciated!! thanks =)
New Again Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Texting is passive aggressive and can easily be ignored as you found out. If you want to confront him over this, you need to do it in person, face to face.
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 As I've said before - the dude is married - he's not interested in you as anything serious. You are a plaything. The sooner you get used to that idea, the sooner you'll realize that he has zero regard for your feelings, so confronting him does not matter. He doesn't feel bad because he doesn't care. I really wish you'd find somebody that actually deserves you - it isn't this guy. He's a jerk.
Brightmoon Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Is he married? As to confronting him, yes, deffo face to face.. not text or phone. He may be a bit of player. It seems he is creating a distance. You are worth more.
New Again Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 As I've said before - the dude is married - he's not interested in you as anything serious. You are a plaything. The sooner you get used to that idea, the sooner you'll realize that he has zero regard for your feelings, so confronting him does not matter. He doesn't feel bad because he doesn't care. I really wish you'd find somebody that actually deserves you - it isn't this guy. He's a jerk. didn't know that! What she said!!
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Ahem: He is married, but single? does that make sense? But it would seem the denial runs deep, here. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t212122/
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 I'm not sure confronting would do you much good. His situation is what it is, and he isn't really willing to do much to change things. My guess is that he wasn't expecting you at work that night, and there was someone else there that night that he didn't want knowing about the two of you. You are likely not the only person he is 'seeing' at work.
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