Bringing a girl in on a project. Pros? Cons?

[Null507]

Hey I have recently started to work on a website for the novel I am writing and other short stories within it's universe. I am thinking about asking a girl from church to get involved in it as a proofreader. Doing this would open up our relationship and let her see me outside of church plus give me room to flirt with out her parents, my parents, her twin, or my brothers nearby. However, doing this could also send a "I just want to be friends" message and I don't want to do that. Anyne have any thoughts on this.

[Pizzaman81]

Hey I have recently started to work on a website for the novel I am writing and other short stories within it's universe. I am thinking about asking a girl from church to get involved in it as a proofreader. Doing this would open up our relationship and let her see me outside of church plus give me room to flirt with out her parents, my parents, her twin, or my brothers nearby. However, doing this could also send a "I just want to be friends" message and I don't want to do that. Anyne have any thoughts on this.

 

No games, ask her out to lunch or dinner. Wine her, dine her...

[deux ex machina]

Those are two worlds you don't want colliding.

 

Invite her along to something else.

 

Same effect, less potential spillover.

 

Good luck.

[Awesome Username]

Those are two worlds you don't want colliding.

 

Invite her along to something else.

 

Same effect, less potential spillover.

 

Good luck.

 

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[Null507]

Heythanks for the advice I'll definetly try something else something that can't be miss construed but does anyone have any ideas of ways I can shift our interactions away from church so that she can see me more with out it seeming sudden. I'm trying to tred cautiously, I don't want to make a big move right away and alienate her I want dating me to seem like a natural next step. if that makes sense.