Author tigressA Posted December 7, 2009 Author Posted December 7, 2009 I'm dealing with a somewhat similar situation. It isn't a big problem but annoying,I miet this what cool coople (or so I thought.) through the guy Im dating. They told me to friend them and I did. Fast forward a month later. My guy and I break up for like one minute (a whole other post on that later maybe, lol.) and the couple messages me on facebook, asking how I am. (They found out through my guy, not fb, as the "breakkup" didn't seem real definite, so wasn't announcing it.) Told them I was fine,, will live, whatever. Anyway, they break up like a week later, and now the woman of the couple is both 'hinting' to my guy that she wants to be with him, nothing overt but enough comments to make him a bit wary, and she sent me a note trying to semi diss him. Want to de friend both in the couple, but hate drama, and I'm not responding to the woman''s dramatics. This has taught me to be more careful who I friend and accept as friends I do have a rule that I don't write anything on there that I wouldn't want broadcasted in the news, or tthat I wouldn't wat my teen cousins to read, Of course this couple is airing their dirty laundry on FB. Interesting to read, but ughhhhhhhhhhhh, not my business. You definitely shouldn't be afraid to delete both of those people and even block them. Who cares what they may think of you if you do? Plus it sounds like a good idea what with what this woman's been doing. Though people who know my previous boyfriends have friended me and I've accepted them, I never hesitated deleting them after the relationship was over, especially if as a result of the breakup I never really saw them around or talked to them anymore.
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