red shoes Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Why is it that some unappealing and creepy men think they are allowed to hit on a girl on the streets? Why is it that eligible and normal men don't do that? Do unappealing and creepy men have more confidence than perfectly normal men?
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Perhaps they feel they have nothing to lose.
InspiredbyYou Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Hahahaha there is some truth to that. However, what is unappealing to one girl can be appealing to another. So in guy's defense some guys will try and keep trying until they get a result even if sometimes they hit on women that are somewhat out of their league. You gotta respect guys who at least have the guts for trying that, I can imagine it must take a lot of courage to set yourself up like that.
cognac Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 BUT BUT BUT.... I thought it was all about confidence and looks don't matter it's not their fault OP, they've just been lied to.
FleshNBones Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Why is it that some unappealing and creepy men think they are allowed to hit on a girl on the streets? Why is it that eligible and normal men don't do that? Do unappealing and creepy men have more confidence than perfectly normal men?Maybe the "perfectly normal men" already have so many women throwing themselves at them that the normal men don't need to. There isn't much to fishing when the fish leap into the boat.
Author red shoes Posted December 7, 2009 Author Posted December 7, 2009 Maybe the "perfectly normal men" already have so many women throwing themselves at them that the normal men don't need to. There isn't much to fishing when the fish leap into the boat. So the "normal" ones don't need to do much to get women, whether confident or otherwise. But the "not so normal" ones need to try harder.
runner Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 yes but it's also frustrating when all you get is salmon and trout as opposed to that yummy looking tuna you keep thinking about.
Lizzie60 Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Thing is.. unappealing and creepy men DON'T know they're unappealing and creepy.. . They think they're cool..
J dub Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Oy, I think they KNOW they are creeps, but in their minds, they've been shot down so many times it's only a matter of time before some sorry sap finally falls for their antics. And it makes sense...mathematically speaking. /ends dork post.
AD1980 Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 unattractive guy to women=creepy The guy could just be a nice guy hitting on you but if hes not good looking then women throw the creep label on him If some good looking dude hit on you who actually was a "creep" you wouldnt know it because youd be so into his appereance and the fact a good loooking guy was hitting on you Reasons like this post is why i dont even hit on or approach women..Women act like you dont belong in their air space if you arent attractive and how dare you try to approach them and think you have a chance Ill pass
J dub Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 unattractive guy to women=creepy The guy could just be a nice guy hitting on you but if hes not good looking then women throw the creep label on him If some good looking dude hit on you who actually was a "creep" you wouldnt know it because youd be so into his appereance and the fact a good loooking guy was hitting on you Reasons like this post is why i dont even hit on or approach women..Women act like you dont belong in their air space if you arent attractive and how dare you try to approach them and think you have a chance Ill pass wrong. I turn down "attractive" men when they are being el-creepo, all men have the ability to do it and its not just the "unattractive" ones. I am in love with one who I initially thought was just average. Now, he is the hottest, sexiest thing on the planet.
Author red shoes Posted December 7, 2009 Author Posted December 7, 2009 yes but it's also frustrating when all you get is salmon and trout as opposed to that yummy looking tuna you keep thinking about. Bingo. Bingo. Bingo. Bingo. Bingo.
AD1980 Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 wrong. I turn down "attractive" men when they are being el-creepo, all men have the ability to do it and its not just the "unattractive" ones. I am in love with one who I initially thought was just average. Now, he is the hottest, sexiest thing on the planet. Maybe not you but the op is implying that guys she doesnt deem attractive hitting on her is a major nuisance in her life and theyre creeps for doing it..
Author red shoes Posted December 7, 2009 Author Posted December 7, 2009 Thing is.. unappealing and creepy men DON'T know they're unappealing and creepy.. . They think they're cool.. It's called delusional.
Author red shoes Posted December 7, 2009 Author Posted December 7, 2009 unattractive guy to women=creepy The guy could just be a nice guy hitting on you but if hes not good looking then women throw the creep label on him If some good looking dude hit on you who actually was a "creep" you wouldnt know it because youd be so into his appereance and the fact a good loooking guy was hitting on you Reasons like this post is why i dont even hit on or approach women..Women act like you dont belong in their air space if you arent attractive and how dare you try to approach them and think you have a chance Ill pass A simple smile in a non-creepy way is good enough. And having a non-creepy face helps.
AD1980 Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 A simple smile in a non-creepy way is good enough. And having a non-creepy face helps. Whatever id be flattered if a women hit on me wheter im attracted to her or not as long as she was being polite As i said women think men who they see not on their level are crazy for even approaching Ill just stay away so i dont offend some of you ladies:rolleyes:
J dub Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 unappealing is not necessarily synonymous with unattractive. A man who has terrible social manners, is a complete moron/crass/pig, is unappealing. But can still be attractive in literal terms. Just saying.
AD1980 Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 unappealing is not necessarily synonymous with unattractive. . Guys she doesnt find attractive is what she meant
J dub Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Guys she doesnt find attractive is what she meant Really? Because she SAID unappealing. How would you know what she "meant"? I have to say, we may have to agree to disagree here. You are that type of male I just cannot get on with...lol. No offense
Stockalone Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Why is it that some unappealing and creepy men think they are allowed to hit on a girl on the streets? Why is it that eligible and normal men don't do that? Do unappealing and creepy men have more confidence than perfectly normal men? As long as most women expect men to be the ones to initiate and pursue, you will have to accept that men you don't like will be hitting on you.
AD1980 Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 To the op i dont know what u look like u could be beauitiful or a trainwreck for all i know but maybe if all these guys hitting on you are all the same level looks wise maybe that is your level? Perhaps you have an inflated sense of how good looking u are and the guys u want hitting on you are above you and the ones you think are beneath you maybe are not Just something to think about
Awesome Username Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 unattractive guy to women=creepy The guy could just be a nice guy hitting on you but if hes not good looking then women throw the creep label on him If some good looking dude hit on you who actually was a "creep" you wouldnt know it because youd be so into his appereance and the fact a good loooking guy was hitting on you Reasons like this post is why i dont even hit on or approach women..Women act like you dont belong in their air space if you arent attractive and how dare you try to approach them and think you have a chance Ill pass I think what we're talking about here isn't just looks - I'm talking the "EY MAMI!" and "Hey Hey HEY WHAT'S YOUR NAME?! HELLOO?!?!!" and "Hey Shawwwty!" While you're walking down the street. It's funny because sometimes there ARE attractive men doing that, and its almost a shame that they had to waste a good opportunity by being such an idiot.
b52s Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Why is it that some unappealing and creepy men think they are allowed to hit on a girl on the streets? Why is it that eligible and normal men don't do that? Do unappealing and creepy men have more confidence than perfectly normal men? Wasn't there ANOTHER post like this one by another woman who thought she was hot stuff, and thought the "ugly" guys shouldn't hit on her and the handsome men should. Get over yourself O.P. (Another one that thinks they're all that) I'm getting tired of these posts. Why must a man, who simply approaches a woman be creepy, and should have their Mace ready to be sprayed?
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