Roo Boy Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Hello there, this is my first post. I am not coping really well with the current situation with my wife. We have had an argument 2 weeks ago and she went back to her parents for a few nights without talking about her problem. When she returned home things were ok for 2 days, but she never seemed to accept the damage she made on our relationship. She left again last night and is at her parents now. Since the first time she left I go into a self destructive mode that I can't seem to escape. I seem to be intentionally making things worse and i can't stop. I regret this behaviour for a minute and then I switch back to hate. Just wondering if anyone has a bit of advice to get me through untill i see a doc on thursday. I can't reason why she is doing this without talking about it first.
Boundary Problem Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Let things settle down and go see your doctor. Plus get a counsellor for anger management. Wait for your wife to contact you. And in the meantime get a hold of your emotions. Sorry you feel this way, but hopefully it is just a temporary break.
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