Waitress Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 A guy friend of mine tends to scan my body when we talk. It's happening more lately. Is this just an instinctive guy kind of thing or is it specific he's interested in my body?
Boundary Problem Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 A guy friend of mine tends to scan my body when we talk. It's happening more lately. Is this just an instinctive guy kind of thing or is it specific he's interested in my body? I think he is interested specifically in your body. Doesn't mean he'll act on it. Just - chances are he'll be putting his hands in his pockets every time he sees you... - that is usually the give-away - at least when they are wearing suits.
bbf Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 As a man I'd say that if you have a great body, we all want to look. The only sign might be if he wants you to know he's looking.
Author Waitress Posted December 6, 2009 Author Posted December 6, 2009 I think he is interested specifically in your body. Doesn't mean he'll act on it. Just - chances are he'll be putting his hands in his pockets every time he sees you... - that is usually the give-away - at least when they are wearing suits. What does putting his hands in his pockets have to do with it?
bbf Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 What does putting his hands in his pockets have to do with it? Trying to hide his boner?
Boundary Problem Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 Trying to hide his boner? Yup. One of these days I'll chew them out about how rude it is to have their hands in their pockets in the presence of a woman and see if I get them to reveal. So far I leave them to their privacy.
Author Waitress Posted December 6, 2009 Author Posted December 6, 2009 Trying to hide his boner? Ahh okay, I'll keep an eye out for that.
sonicranger Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 I agree with the other male opinions. He thinks you're hot stuff and wonders what itd be like to put his hands on you! If he's doing the hand/pocket thing its very likely to "coax" his baby maker into a comfortable position, as his thoughts of you have stirred a fire in his loins!!!
espec10001 Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Damn you females! You know men's weakness! If you look real good, we can't hide that we are attracted to you! The power of the female figure, enough to sap his intellect, it is!
sedgwick Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Well, I just got rejected for being too fat, so I know what they're thinking in my case: ugh!
Author Waitress Posted December 7, 2009 Author Posted December 7, 2009 I agree with the other male opinions. He thinks you're hot stuff and wonders what itd be like to put his hands on you! If he's doing the hand/pocket thing its very likely to "coax" his baby maker into a comfortable position, as his thoughts of you have stirred a fire in his loins!!! Now that I'm thinking about it he does put his hands in his pants pockets a lot when we're talking. I always thought he was cold.
Boundary Problem Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 The other hint is when they stay seated when you walk into your office, and every other male stands up when you walk into the room.
Angel1111 Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Damn you females! You know men's weakness! If you look real good, we can't hide that we are attracted to you! The power of the female figure, enough to sap his intellect, it is! OMG! That is SO funny. As long as I've been alive, I have never heard this about the hands in the pocket. Too funny. Yeah, that is one huge advantage that women have over men - we can be going nuts inside and can hide it competely. Then again, I guess that's what makes us so mysterious, huh? And why men are so adorably transparent.
littlewhiterose Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Yup. One of these days I'll chew them out about how rude it is to have their hands in their pockets in the presence of a woman and see if I get them to reveal. So far I leave them to their privacy. So when they put their hands in their pockets, I shouldn't ask them "Heyyy, what' s up?"
Yukikazi Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 LOL.. hiding his boner?? Hands in pockets is classic body language for being nervous. You put your hands in your pockets cause they are cold or you are nervous cause you don't know what else to do with them. Ladies.. when a guy is talking to you.. who is more interesting. (assuming talking abotu the same thing) The guy with his hands in his pockets.. Or The guy talking animatedly gesturing to emphasize?
Boundary Problem Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 So when they put their hands in their pockets, I shouldn't ask them "Heyyy, what' s up?" Not my style. I would prefer going and standing an inch away from them, reaching up to whisper in their ear that it is really rude to have their hands in their pockets when in the presence of a woman, and then discretely look down to see if they take their hands out. Which if course they can't. Because now I'm standing soooo close to them. I would then wait a suitable period of time and then just walk away. If they say one word the whole time I would be surprised.
littlewhiterose Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Not my style. I would prefer going and standing an inch away from them, reaching up to whisper in their ear that it is really rude to have their hands in their pockets when in the presence of a woman, and then discretely look down to see if they take their hands out. Which if course they can't. Because now I'm standing soooo close to them. I would then wait a suitable period of time and then just walk away. If they say one word the whole time I would be surprised. I like the cut of your jib.
Sam Spade Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 A guy friend of mine tends to scan my body when we talk. It's happening more lately. Is this just an instinctive guy kind of thing or is it specific he's interested in my body? Let me set the record straight - guys are specifically interested in any female body that's proportionate and not overweight
Sam Spade Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Not my style. I would prefer going and standing an inch away from them, reaching up to whisper in their ear that it is really rude to have their hands in their pockets when in the presence of a woman, and then discretely look down to see if they take their hands out. Which if course they can't. Because now I'm standing soooo close to them. I would then wait a suitable period of time and then just walk away. If they say one word the whole time I would be surprised. I'd totally smack your azz in this scenario . (Without saying a word, naturally, and then who's walking away, eh?)
Boundary Problem Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 I'd totally smack your azz in this scenario . (Without saying a word, naturally, and then who's walking away, eh?) Well you would have to take your hands out of your pockets to smack me. And I'm telling you right now - I would look down and peek at your trouser situation - just before impact.
littlewhiterose Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Let me set the record straight - guys are specifically interested in any female body that's proportionate and not overweight Um, I disagree. It depends on what he's into. I've been out with a friend of mine who would be considered large or overweight and some guys were unequivocally checking her out like hardcore. Chocolate, vanilla, apples, oranges, paper, plastic, to each their own, ya know?
Sam Spade Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Well you would have to take your hands out of your pockets to smack me. And I'm telling you right now - I would look down and peek at your trouser situation - just before impact. Oh well, I guess you'll have to put your hand in my pocket to balance things out :eek:
sedgwick Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Let me set the record straight - guys are specifically interested in any female body that's proportionate and not overweight How skinny do women need to be? I'm really in a lot of pain tonight after being rejected for being too fat. I threw away my dinner and haven't eaten anything today, and I really would like to know how much I need to lose before guys stop being embarrassed to be seen with me.
TheLoneSock Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 A guy friend of mine tends to scan my body when we talk. It's happening more lately. Is this just an instinctive guy kind of thing or is it specific he's interested in my body? It's instinct generally. Part of a man's subconcious does a quick scan over EVERY girl he ever meets; he checks three things. 1) Facial symmetry: signifies good genetics. 2) Skin, hair and teeth condition: signifies the lack of or minimization of genetic damage. 3) Hip/waist ratio and breast size: a woman's ability to conceive and rear his offspring. With that said, and the scientific reasons put out there. Now, very honestly and bluntly, I'll tell you what I think for the first few seconds when I see a nice face/body on a girl around my age: "I would f*ck her brains out." "I want to undress her ASAP." "I'd love to get behind her right about now." Or variations of things like that, some more and some less vulgar. Hey, I am what I am, and I like what I like. Hope that clears atleast something up for you, OP.
threebyfate Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 A guy friend of mine tends to scan my body when we talk. It's happening more lately. Is this just an instinctive guy kind of thing or is it specific he's interested in my body? A guy thinks: Is there lint on her jacket?If I look hard enough, I can see the outline of her steak dinner.Did she get liposuction?She looks like a size 8. I have the perfect dress for her.
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