rateyes Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 He is referring to endorphins and Oxycontin actually Testosterone is not a feel good pleasure chemical Testosterone is the big driving force behind wanting to do it tho...its pretty much the reason you urge to.
muse08 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 So you think 2 drunk ppl getting it on standing up in a dirty alley is a bonding of spirits eh? ...funny, but probably not b/c they are not in their normal state of mind. and it's just dancing. I'm referring to long periods of time like people DATING or MARRIED...
Yukikazi Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Women can bitch about men when they get better taste in them.
Yukikazi Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 ...funny, but probably not b/c they are not in their normal state of mind. and it's just dancing. I'm referring to long periods of time like people DATING or MARRIED... Yea.. we aren't talking long term things in this thread. Nor cheating as the sluts don't got for long term as you all like to point out.
deux ex machina Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 I don't think any specific gender has the market cornered on getting hurt.
muse08 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Not to shoot this down, because I consider myself atleast a somewhat religious person and spiritual; but wouldn't this be more closely related the chemicals released by the brain? Powerfull stuff. Perhaps a topic for a new thread so we don't hijack this one. You can't be too very spiritual if you're telling me that it's chemical, not spiritual. You must be posing as a religious person;)... Otherwise you should know that being spiritual is not necessarily linked to being religious. Ok enough...you're right we can't hijack this thread, I like it too much!
muse08 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Yea.. we aren't talking long term things in this thread. Nor cheating as the sluts don't got for long term as you all like to point out. This thread is not limited to long term or short term. It'S about being a player and that is related to long term as well. duhhh. Furthermore, who are you to say,lol...? So many people in this thread have mentioned "relationships"...which are affected by playerzzz. HELLO!
Yukikazi Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 This thread is not limited to long term or short term. It'S about being a player Actually this thread has been pretty exclusively women bashing any man they may think and incorrectly refer to as a player and the men in response trying to defend themselves as that is the man thing to do. This thread is nothing more then an excuse to start a fight.
muse08 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 most guys i know are that way because women treat guys like ****...why is the guys fault? It's not always the guys fault rateyes...I'll admit that. Both parties can be pretty nasty. I know a situation or two where the woman treated the man dirty b/c she wanted to "get him" before he got her... Now that's sad, but the basis of that whole thing (for the situation in particular that I'm thinking about ) is because she had been hurt and her mother even told her to that this was the way she should carryout her relationships with men. This is not how I am, but this is her M.O.
Woggle Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 It's not always the guys fault rateyes...I'll admit that. Both parties can be pretty nasty. I know a situation or two where the woman treated the man dirty b/c she wanted to "get him" before he got her... Now that's sad, but the basis of that whole thing (for the situation in particular that I'm thinking about ) is because she had been hurt and her mother even told her to that this was the way she should carryout her relationships with men. This is not how I am, but this is her M.O. Male players are the same way. It is a get them before they get you mentality. Sadly many innocent people from both sexes get caught up in this gender war. Sadly when I hear of a woman getting cheated on these days or betrayed I almost start to get an evil smirk and I truly hate feeling that way.
muse08 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 This thread is nothing more then an excuse to start a fight. You're funny. I don't see it as such. Why can't we use this thread to educate. Whomever is out there being a "player" should read about how the behavior toward a person who is treating you well, has very negative effects. If not, then you're right...This would only be an opportunity to "start a fight". I'm hoping for the best though yukikazi!
TheLoneSock Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Sadly when I hear of a woman getting cheated on these days or betrayed I almost start to get an evil smirk and I truly hate feeling that way. Whooaaa... Yes that is evil lol.
Woggle Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Whooaaa... Yes that is evil lol. I see it with this whole Tiger Woods thing. If he were female many women would be treating him as some sort of feminist hero. He was dead wrong but all this hypocritical moralizing from women who probably cheer on female cheaters makes me want to get in the man's corner.
muse08 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Male players are the same way. It is a get them before they get you mentality. Woggle, thanks for the response. But you know what, I just assume that most men are just evil and selfish and don't care... Is that not correct. Do most men have this "don't get got" mentality regarding the playing field or is that just YOU talking...? I'm truly curious! OTHER GUYS PLZ CHIME IN AS WELL)))
muse08 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Whooaaa... Yes that is evil lol. 4real...up and down EVIL and so sad,lol...
Yukikazi Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Sounds familiar Switch genders and it is exactly what was said here before. Guys become jerks to adapt.. Women show them that being the nice guy just dosen't work 99% of the time. Women are wired to go for the alpha male.. Nice guys are rarely the alpha male Bad boys are the alpha males. 1.Nice guys become bad boys to get the girls. 2.Girls complain about lack of nice guys.. usually to their nice guy friend who watches girl go for another bad boy 3.Nice guy realizes that he will finish last.. 4. Return to step 1
bbf Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Woggle, thanks for the response. But you know what, I just assume that most men are just evil and selfish and don't care... Is that not correct. Do most men have this "don't get got" mentality regarding the playing field or is that just YOU talking...? I'm truly curious! OTHER GUYS PLZ CHIME IN AS WELL))) The love shack audience is probably a tad more jaded than the general public. ...at least I hope.
Yukikazi Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 You're funny. I don't see it as such. Why can't we use this thread to educate. Whomever is out there being a "slut" should read about how the behavior toward a person who is treating you well, has very negative effects. Everyone is a player.. accept that fact.
TheLoneSock Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Sounds familiar Switch genders and it is exactly what was said here before. Guys become jerks to adapt.. Women show them that being the nice guy just dosen't work 99% of the time. Women are wired to go for the alpha male.. Nice guys are rarely the alpha male Bad boys are the alpha males. 1.Nice guys become bad boys to get the girls. 2.Girls complain about lack of nice guys.. usually to their nice guy friend who watches girl go for another bad boy 3.Nice guy realizes that he will finish last.. 4. Return to step 1 Lol, this was really funny the way you put it.
muse08 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 I see it with this whole Tiger Woods thing. If he were female many women would be treating him as some sort of feminist hero. He was dead wrong but all this hypocritical moralizing from women who probably cheer on female cheaters makes me want to get in the man's corner. So why do you suppose Tiger did it? "don't get got" mentality or just entitlement like so many other athletes and or "players". Men...you should start trying to understand women more. Think about it...when a woman cheats, she's (in most cases) cheating with some other MAN who could be one of these players that you so often empathize with. Some men out here are just "maintenance men"...waiting for you to drop the ball:cool:...
Yukikazi Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 I just assume that most men are just evil and selfish and don't care... We don't start out this way.. we are what women compel us to become
muse08 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 The love shack audience is probably a tad more jaded than the general public. ...at least I hope. I think you're right, but there is a lot of truth coming out in these posts... Anger and truth (at least about the way they feel)
Yukikazi Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Men...you should start trying to understand women more. Think about it...when a woman cheats, she's (in most cases) cheating with some other MAN who could be one of these players that you so often empathize with. She could also just be cheating cause she is a player herself. I dunno if its just me but most of your posts seem to be trying even obliquely to blame men for all the problems in any relationship issue.
muse08 Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 We don't start out this way.. we are what women compel us to become wow that's sad, REALLY. No one WANTS to be hurt, yet we out here inflicting pain. Sounds similar to the idea that 'ABUSERS OFTEN ABUSE'.
Woggle Posted December 9, 2009 Posted December 9, 2009 Tiger cheated because he could but it bothers me how a private family matter has turned into a public lynching. Women are just using him to take out their hatred of men in general.
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