brenddate Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 Mine is a continuation of my frustrating fight and resultant breakup, with dude who seems more like he wants to 'punish' me, like he wants me to beg him, or like he is still in it, but is still upset therefore needs time to cool down. We argued over the phone, i hang up excetra... (plse see my original post). Then from Monday i told myself, enuff with these games. Hot and cold. I don't want to be in this "still want you, no let it be mode" Not too healthy!!! Tuesday, i think it was, dude calls me on a number he hasnt used in ages. I answer and no one talks on the other line. I was busy so i hang up. Many several hours later i call (still unsure who was calling because i nolonger had the number saved in my phonebook). I call, dude answers but doesn't talk. Curiosity rises i hang up and send a text saying i missed a call bla bla bla and just tried to phone back. No reply. Next day i check my diary, only to learn its ex-boyfriends old phone which he dint use for long when we had just met. So i call him up, and tell him i reliased he phoned me days ago and i missed call and was checking quote..." Is there something you wanted me to do for you?' H e answers the phone, turns off his telly and listens attentively, being nice and says the phone must have dialed itself. Question? Did his phone unconsciously dial my number which he hasn't dialed from that phone in months? Question two: If indeed it dialed itself, did he not see my text wondering who had called, that i missed? And to make it even more confusing, he was being nice and asking how i am and if i am well and okay Is this all drama, ego issues or what? That was Thursday, its now Sunday, i ended the call formally and pleasantly within 3 minutes, without asking back how he was, like ive normally done. I want him back by the way, but i a not desperate. I mean if i can fix it, good, if i cant, painfully, but with dignity, i will move on. What do these games of his signify? I am busy trying this no communication idea i hear but what is the meaning of all these games from Mr dude? I am going crazy in my mind- even tho it wont show in my tone nor on my face.
jerbear Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Sounds like he is playing games. Butt dialing does not happen to often with newer phones. He is just making excuses so that you call thinking something is going on.
Author brenddate Posted December 7, 2009 Author Posted December 7, 2009 Sounds like he is playing games. Butt dialing does not happen to often with newer phones. He is just making excuses so that you call thinking something is going on. thank you. I guess its games which again he is doing the wrong way. If the number dialed itself, i sent a text asking who was trying to contact me, in which he case he should have been upfront about it and said it was a mistake......but he kept quiet. That even puts me off instead
Author brenddate Posted December 13, 2009 Author Posted December 13, 2009 Thanks to everyone who has been supportive The worst is over. I feel much much better and progressing very well with moving on. I truly appreciate:D and treasure your support. x
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