Satch Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 Hello all, ok i'm gonna spill everything out. I've bin dating a woman now for 13 months, we met at work and have liked eachother for a long time. She's bin separated for 2 years but relies on her husband alot for picking up her children and money for the children. She pays the mortgage now and i know she struggles and it hurts me to see it, but she seems to cope ok. During our relationship i have bin in her house once, she doesnt want me to go up because of the children and her husband finding me there ( in a house he doesnt live in ). She used to come over to mine but has stopped because i have a dog now, she wont visit my family and she wont allow me to visit hers, i have met her son though. Shes very religious and i totally respect that, really i do, but now she says shes not sure if she loves me. When we go out on our own shes great and loving but should she see someone we know her demeaner completely changes, embarassed i think. Theres an age gap of a little over 10 years between us. Ikeep telling her i love her, want her, thats she s gorgeous, i do everything i can to let her know she is my princess. She does go cold sometimes and that kiss me, its like dying everday, then she'll be ok. I told her last time she went cold that i couldnt go through it again so recently i asked her if she loved me after going cold again. " i dont know " she answered so i said i need to know or i'm gonna finish it. What should i do now, we work together and i adore her. Please help.......
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