Niru Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 I believe this is my main obstacle in getting over my ex girlfriend. I can't get over these thoughts of her sleeping with someone else - anyone in particular, but mainly my ex best friend and other friends. She cheated on me with my best friend. Anyways, yes, I don't want to bore you with my story.. The thing that hurts most is thoughts of her sleeping with someone else. I honestly feel and think that, other than this, there is nothing else that is keeping me from getting over her and moving on. How do I overcome this? Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated.
Blindsidedagainalive Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 You need to focus on yourself heavily. Focus on your health, education, recreation. Get fit, read, explore, take classes, plan something fun. Consider getting involved with charity work. You don't have to do it forever. It will give you some perspective on life and it feels great. There is such a variety of things to get involved with, you can choose one that suits you. The objective it to get out of yourself. To stop feeling sorry for yourself and move on. Many people on this forum have experienced cheating with long term marriages and children together. At this point, consider yourself lucky....I know you don't feel that way now, but you will eventually.
You'reasian Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 I believe this is my main obstacle in getting over my ex girlfriend. I can't get over these thoughts of her sleeping with someone else - anyone in particular, but mainly my ex best friend and other friends. She cheated on me with my best friend. Anyways, yes, I don't want to bore you with my story.. The thing that hurts most is thoughts of her sleeping with someone else. I honestly feel and think that, other than this, there is nothing else that is keeping me from getting over her and moving on. How do I overcome this? Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated. Guy, she's your ex girlfriend. That's reason enough. She's not with you and doesn't want to be. You've got to get busy living your life. Doing what you do and if the right girl comes around, love and cherish her
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