Baggy Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 Hey all, Recently my girlfriend broke up with me. I told her i wouldnt do drugs but i did anyway, so she broke up with me. I saw recently that she went out and put her profile picture on FB with this random guy. Im planning a surprise trip to Paris for my sweetheart, so ladies, my question is would a trip to Paris win your heart back. Or what would do it. Ive tried everything in my power, but feel empty inside. She was the love of my life and i regret what i did but want her back. Ive stopped the drugs for good now, and just want to be back to together. Any advice.
USMCHokie Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 Don't book your trip to Paris. Unless you want to go alone. Or find someone else. A grand gesture is the last thing you will want to do. First, you'll be stuck with an extra ticket to Paris because she won't want to go. Second, if you two ever get back together, it will have to be when she realizes that she wants to be with you. The more you try to bring her back, the further you will push her away. I tell you this from personal experience. I did the same thing, but it was to Germany (I was going for work and invited her along). She said no after thinking about it for a few days. It made me feel worse, like another knife in the heart. You don't want to subject yourself to that. She seems to have left you to look after herself. At this point, all you can do is fix yourself and move on with your life. If she wants to be with you, she will make her way back into your life on her own accord. Nothing you will do can speed that up. It will only slow it down or bring it to a screeching halt. Sorry for the tough love. No sympathy for drug users.
HeavenOrHell Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 I would want solid evidence that you are off the drugs and will stay off the drugs, it would take months before I believe that and see it with my own eyes. I would want to go to relationship therapy together and talk everything through and see if there was a chance to rebuild in the future. I would only take you back if I trusted you 100%. A trip to Paris is no good if she doesn't trust you. Hey all, Recently my girlfriend broke up with me. I told her i wouldnt do drugs but i did anyway, so she broke up with me. I saw recently that she went out and put her profile picture on FB with this random guy. Im planning a surprise trip to Paris for my sweetheart, so ladies, my question is would a trip to Paris win your heart back. Or what would do it. Ive tried everything in my power, but feel empty inside. She was the love of my life and i regret what i did but want her back. Ive stopped the drugs for good now, and just want to be back to together. Any advice.
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