moosegreen Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 so my question is...has anyone givin anyone a second chance after being hurt bad and it workin out for a long time??...and is it the same as befor???
kimmi Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 I have done it a few times. The first time that I did the second chance was to my first everything in a relationship.. after 6 years we parted ways and continued on with our owns lives after 4 years of no contact he called (I had his daughter and he did not see her either) his choice. We met and he instantly fell in love with me. I on the other hand had a hard time with that. past relationship had every kind of abuse that there is. It took me months to except him even liking me again, However I seen that he was trying really hard so I gave it another chance. Lasted 7 years, we broke up for the reasons 1- he was having a affair with a co-worker 2- I never dealt with my isuses with the past relationship we had before.
XKatieX Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 I'm asking myself the same thing. If someone falls out of love because of too much abuse/damage, can they ever feel the same way again, with time? idk.. I think it depends on two reasons, if there are still feelings there and if there is still hope there. if the feelings are gone and never return, then the hope is gone, and I don't think there is a chance of ever reconciling. I could be wrong though, time could bring feelings back.
kimmi Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 Truly, I think that the only way that it would ever work out is if you realize what the problems were in the past and get help for your selves as well as together. It all ends for reasons and it can work out as well if people do truly some soul searching and do not discount what EACH PERSON HAS DONE WRONG. No just one person..
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