Raindrop100 Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 Hi I met this guy last year during a Christmas Party. We didn't get to interact much during the party. Almost a year later, I received a friendship invitation email through an online platform. What a small world, I recognised that it was him when he showed me his photo on MSN. Due to each other busy schedule, we finally get to meet up for dinner one fine day. The dinner went well though not fantastic and it lasted for two hours. The next morning he sent me a text message. It was quite unexpected as I don't think he was attracted to me. In his message he mentioned he hope to see me more during the group events. Few hours later I replied may be I shall give him a treat in return and asked him to suggest a date if free. He replied a day after and said it was his pleasure to treat me to dinner and he hope to see me in group setting again. Does that mean he has no interest in me at all?
Lish Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 Hi I met this guy last year during a Christmas Party. We didn't get to interact much during the party. Almost a year later, I received a friendship invitation email through an online platform. What a small world, I recognised that it was him when he showed me his photo on MSN. Due to each other busy schedule, we finally get to meet up for dinner one fine day. The dinner went well though not fantastic and it lasted for two hours. The next morning he sent me a text message. It was quite unexpected as I don't think he was attracted to me. In his message he mentioned he hope to see me more during the group events. Few hours later I replied may be I shall give him a treat in return and asked him to suggest a date if free. He replied a day after and said it was his pleasure to treat me to dinner and he hope to see me in group setting again. Does that mean he has no interest in me at all? In a group setting? Sounds to me like you've been friendzoned.
Author Raindrop100 Posted December 6, 2009 Author Posted December 6, 2009 (edited) I think alike. But yet I don't think it has to be made known to me deliberately as I have never initiated contact with him again after the dinner. It really makes no difference whether he sent me follow up text messages because I have made known to him I seldom join group events, if I do bump into him, I would still uphold proper social grace by saying hi and probably have a casual conversation with him. Edited December 6, 2009 by Raindrop100
Author Raindrop100 Posted January 10, 2010 Author Posted January 10, 2010 I met this guy again on Christmas Party. He was sitting at another table whereas his sister from overseas was sitting at the same table as me. I greeted him when I saw him but he confessed that he couldn't recognise me as I was wearing contact lenses. The next day he called and initiated a dinner together with her sister within the same week. I counter-proposed to bring along a common friend but he refused. The dinner went well and he verbalised that he was looking forward to seeing me again in the fellowship. I gave an uncertain answer as to whether attending the fellowship. He looked very disappointed and mumbled "why found somebody you like but not attending fellowship?". However, within seconds, he changed topic to other subject matter and we proceeded to shopping before heading home. He called me and texted me everyday before the dinner. After the dinner, we continued to chat a bit on MSN. Two days after, I realised he was avoiding me on MSN and that continued till today. I sent him an email and a text message and thankfully he gave instantaneous reply(took him longer to reply previously). I feel he is giving mixed signals which really make me confused. Any kind soul up there is willing to shed light and share you views on him? Is he not keen on me at all?
sparkle Posted January 10, 2010 Posted January 10, 2010 If he actually said the "group" setting bit, he doesn't seem interested. Guys who like a girl would also want to spend some time alone. Back off and see what he does.
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