carvidep Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I should be concentrating on my studies... not my happiness! Your happiness is just as important as your studies. You can be happy without her. Do not associate this girl with your happiness or your heart may not heal as quickly as you'd like it to.
Author Unistudent Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 well... the way that I work.. and I really cant help it but.... when I am falling for someone... or really liking them I tend to push all other things aside and put all of my energy into them... and work on making them happy. I can manage sometimes... but this whole thing with this girl has messed up a bit of my studies... like when she would leave me with a weekend of thinking about what might be going on.... its just heartless. But thats done and done. I can't afford to be happy right now... at least not in the sense of looking for/being aware of a possible love in my life. Need to get out of this school hell hole and into my life! I know she does not equal my happiness... it feels like that now... but thats only because I am still broken... but it will pass. Thank you
JaggedRoad Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Thank God you're finally ending it. I would have rode up to Canada and slapped your face silly if you honestly stayed with her after the recent "visit". I'm glad you caught on early and didn't find out much later--like hoping2heal mentioned--that this girl is nothing but trouble. So... how are you going to end it with her?
Author Unistudent Posted December 14, 2009 Author Posted December 14, 2009 It's already done. I did it through email. Basically just said that things didn't add up and that maybe she was just too young for something like this right now... there was some other stuff in there too.. nothing too malicious though. Honestly I would have waited until she actually decided to talk to me but I probably would have backed out of my decision if I heard her voice or saw her face. I know emails are a kind of heartless way to break things off... but really shes been noting but heartless to me right? and if shes been acting the way that she has then she doesn't care about me at all... therefore she won't be hurting at all. Thanks again everyone! It hurts but it will pass... and it is extremely hard to not respond to her messages! :/
carvidep Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 *hug!* I'm so proud of you for standing up for yourself! You have a good head on your shoulders. You'll find someone who appreciates you and puts as much effort into making you happy as you do for her. Now go ace those exams!
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