CheerChickLeah Posted December 17, 2003 Posted December 17, 2003 [font=arial][/font][color=red][/color] Hey, My boyfriend (or i guess my now EX-boyfriend ) broke up w/ me a month ago. He didn't really have any GOOD reason to break up w/ me. I was a good girlfriend who NEVER cheated on him or did anything else to hurt him. I still love him as much as I did while we were going out. I have liked him for almost 3 yrs. now & am not about to get over him. We went out for 6 months. Right after we broke up I tried to be his friend & still talk to him. I told him that I still liked him. He told me that he still liked me too, but just didn't want a girlfriend right now. Was he just trying to be nice? Now everytime I try talking to him he acts really weird & is difficult to talk to. I'm REALLY AFRAID that we won't go back out. I am trying to ignore him & act like I don't need him (which is not true @ aLL!) I'm hoping that this will let him see what he's missing. I would do anything to get back w/ him. If anyone has any ideas or advice, then PleASe respond! Thankz a bunch! *muAh*! -Leah P.S. & he said that there definately wasn't someone else. He said that he couldn't see himself being happy in a relationship w/ me in the future, so that's why he ended it when he did.
texastapper Posted December 17, 2003 Posted December 17, 2003 You are actually very right, sometimes people dont realize how overwhelming they can be when they are constantly at somebodies side pleading with them to get back with them and looking completely insecure with themselves. You need to just give him his space and let him figure out what it is that he wants, by you being around is not helping him make his decisions. Let him miss you and feel the need for you. If he doesnt come back then you wil realize it just isnt meant to be. But for now you need to go out and make yourself have a blast and meet new people. the best advice I ever got was to date somebody else, your lost love will be able to see all the good qualities in you through someone else and will miss being a part of you. This works more often than not. But that decision is up to you. You have to be strong and find yourself before you can find anyone else. I have posted on here also and I am still in confusion on things also, but this is the best advice I can give you. Good luck!!!
werty Posted December 17, 2003 Posted December 17, 2003 just my opinion here.. i knw that we should gv the relationship space to breath and if it comes back den its meant to be.. but what i both parties have the same thing in mind? what if both of them waiting for each others touch,call, & feel but jst doesnt have the guts to do so coz of the space necessity? but sometimes also if one will pus tru wid the relationship, the more the other party would run away.. this is really confusing. dis is jst my tought though..
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