Maggotface Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 Me and my husband have been separated for a long time now, I live with someone else but I miss him. I miss him everyday and I tell him this all the time but now he has a girlfriend so I do not bother him to much even though he knows I still care about him and want to work things out. I am going to stop talking to him all together unless it's about our son but it's so hard when I want him and us to work and he wants nothing to do with me and cannot wait to get the devorce. He wanted to work on us and get back together until he met the girl he's with now and I am crushed. I have never went NC with anyone I dont think I can do it even though I know it's what's best for me.
Author Maggotface Posted December 7, 2009 Author Posted December 7, 2009 He only called to tell me he was never coming back. I am completely destroyed I dont know what to do anymore. He keeps telling me to get on with my life and let him go like we were just dating. We made vows for better or worse and I guess that ment nothing to him I dont know when or if it will ever stop hurting.
GrayClouds Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 He only called to tell me he was never coming back. I am completely destroyed I dont know what to do anymore. He keeps telling me to get on with my life and let him go like we were just dating. We made vows for better or worse and I guess that ment nothing to him I dont know when or if it will ever stop hurting. One hand can not clap, no matter how hard you tried you can not make a relationship with another by yourself. I am very sorry for your loss, it hurts like hell, and will, but you will come out of it better then you were. Be kind to yourself.
Odyssey Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 OP, there is nothing you can do. The only thing left is acceptance. Good luck - you will survive, everyday will get better as long as you keep your distance. Honest.
deux ex machina Posted December 7, 2009 Posted December 7, 2009 I can tell you are hurting a lot right now - I'm so sorry. I think you are wise in knowing you really have to take care of you. This is very much a grieving process for you. Take your time. Breathe. Be gentle to yourself right now luv. (((hugs)))
Author Maggotface Posted December 7, 2009 Author Posted December 7, 2009 Thanks everyone, this site helps a lot, I moved out a few months ago and my roommate is never home so all I have to do is sit her and think about the wreck my life has turned into. It's even worse now because schools almost out so I'll have even more free time. On the plus side my sons daycare lets out soon so I'll get to be with him all day.
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