Reading Machine Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 After I have her cell phone turned off, because why should I pay her phone bill while we are separated, I send this email. "At this point, I just want you to leave me alone. I am going on with my life. Our marriage has no hope. It does no good for a man to try and love his wife when she does not have any love for him in her heart. I mean love that a women has for her husband. Why would I want to be friends with someone that has lied to me, cheated on me dozens of times. I want to find a woman who will give me the love that is a reflection of the love I give her. Why should I pay for your phone when your out looking for my replacement. It would be a different story if you wanted to try and fix our problems; but you have made it clear on many occastions that you have no interest in working on our marriage. This leaves me no choice but to go on with my life. It is the new mans turn to pay for your bill and put up with your lies and cheat". (The cheating reference is just put in the letter for spite, I have never caught her cheating on me). Then she ask me to come over to her apartment the next night. Her roomate is out of town. She says she will call me when she gets home from work( Friday). I do not her from her until Saturday morning on IM. She says sorry. She was sent home early from work because she is sick. Ask if I would like to come over again tonight. I ask if her lover would be coming home on Sunday, her roommate's married brother. Then I get this is not true I am not with anyone else. Wants to discuss this when she gets off of work. I told her it does not matter because like I said in the email I am finished with this marriage. This is all after 38 days of "No Contact". Why do you think she needs to convince me she is not seeing other people when we have been apart since Aug 12,2009?
cyabye Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 To keep you "cooking slowly on the back burner". "I'd remain NC. cya
Gypsy_Soul Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 So you can keep paying her cell phone bill, and keep you as a backup plan. You'd be her last choice.
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