confusedbemused Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 Hi -- i'm new My ex boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago, saying that he loved me but wasn't in love with me, and couldn't ever see us being together again. fast forward 1.5 months with no contact-- he sends me an email saying that "if i wanted to talk, he was willing to listen". i press him about why he wants to meet up and listen to what i have to say if he still feels the same way, and he can't answer. Later he emails me saying: ""Thank you for understanding how confused i seemed when we talked. That said, I don't think my state [he was a little sick and had just woken up for a nap at the time] was the only reason I had difficulty explaining my reassons for meeting. They were a little unclear to me too. In light of what you said, I'm not sure the reasons I mentioned before--being ready to listen to you--are very good ones. I still wouldd like to meet, but I want to be clear that I want to meet you as a friend. There is no urggent reason or real "reason" at all for such a meetiing, but it could be goood to see each other and speak to each other, simply in order to catch up. I wonder how this sounds to you." I should move on, right? The first email out of the blue made me think he was having second thoughts, but the later email makes it seem pretty clear he's completely moved on. Why is it so hard to give up hope?
Author confusedbemused Posted December 4, 2009 Author Posted December 4, 2009 i just wanted to hear different opinions. and i'm not sure where it fits -- i'm coping, but maybe it's a second chance, but maybe it's just a breakup.
saams Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 if you looking for the second chance then read me reply on your other post
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