rp123 Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 I am coming to believe that I used and allowed my ex to define the person I was, and to support a fragile ego and image of my myself.... When your with someone who is physically very beautiful (my ex..) it validates your self worth. I was being supported by a beautiful crutch. When it was removed I fell flat on my fragile arse......... Time to start looking internally rather than externally. Through such painful suffering I'm learning so much........
Trojan John Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 This is what gets a lot of people... why their "world is falling apart", or why they "lose all hope for love", etc. Making one's happiness or self-worth, etc. contingent upon something or someone external always leads to disaster. It has to come from within. You'll get through it. Cheers
Author rp123 Posted December 4, 2009 Author Posted December 4, 2009 Read IloveCake's 'Projection' post... Thanks Sean! This is interesting..... I would of never of known myself if I hadn't been so utterly broken....
McGrupp Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 (edited) i am definately guilty of this. the funny thing is that NOBODY THINKS IT ABOUT but YOU they still love you. a pretty spouse makes you feel good, not people like u better. Edited December 5, 2009 by McGrupp
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