1Angel Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 Could I get your best tips or advice for coping with infidelity rage?
nobmagnet Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 yes..................hope his nob drops off??? Poor you. im sorry to hear that you have rage. I have no particular suggestions apart from haveing a bloody good rant on here!! why are you feeling like this? have you had a trigger? xx
EnigmaXOXO Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 Could I get your best tips or advice for coping with infidelity rage? As Ivana Trump says: "Don’t get mad... get everything."
GrayClouds Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 Could I get your best tips or advice for coping with infidelity rage? Truly sorry for what you are going through. Understand that there is nothing inappropriate with your anger. In fact it is righteous. You been wronged and lied to in away that highly disrespects the relationship and you. The challange is to understand that behavior like cheating is reflective of the other person, not you. It comes from their weaknesses and insecurities. While this anger is legitimate, be sure your not using anger to cover up the hurt. It can cause lead it to becoming too intense and it will force the pain to linger longer. Like any of the stage to healing it is important to experence but not stay there. The question now is not how to remove the anger but what you will do with it. It can be a destructive force or a postive force. It can help you understand that it is not about you, that you deserve better, and that it can motivate you to start doing all the things you need to do to heal; exercises, journaling, friends support, eating healthy, talking to professionals, get some hobbies going, trying something new, NC ( and when you feel like your backsliding use that anger to keep you doing the right things), ect. I wish you well.
Template Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 You have to take this boundless amount of energy, and use it to fuel positive change in your life. Don't hold it in, use it, flow with it, get creative with it. Just don't succumb to it, and become destructive, not only to yourself and to others. Eventually the rage with surpass, but at least you can look back and see the good that came out of it. The best revenge is living a well life. I can honestly say that after every relationship "setback" that I've had, I've come out a better person, as should you. When I look back at all of my exes, and where they are in life now, they aren't really that much "better" than when they were with me. However, I'm light years ahead as a person. YOU will be too, and you can let your ex suck eggs with envy when he realized what he lost.
dazzle22 Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 small amounts of arsenic, delivered in dribs and drabs, over time into their morning coffee..
nobmagnet Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 maybe counting your blessings the lying cheeting lowly worm is out of your live??!! Works for me.x
bluestraps Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 Smash a hole in the wall in you house !!!!!!!!!!! One you own.. Not in an apartment, you may get kicked out.
bluestraps Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 You could also read through countless entries on LS.
ann09 Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 listen to that carrie underwood song Before He Cheats and then go slash his tires.
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