so_mo34 Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 A 35 year old grocery manager at my work keeps trying to **** young girls who are 18,19 or early 20's. apparently he only had 1 gf in his life. i made the mistake of hooking up with him when i was drunk (i'm 22) and then i started to like him after that so i kept seeing him. now he is going after a 19 year old who has a boyfriend and i feel really hurt. they hang out and stuff, apparently she doesn't like him, but she seems to be leading him on if she keeps hanging out with him. i know we aren't a couple or anything but i can't help to feel jealous. i know i have to get over him, but i am having a hard time. I stopped hooking up with him, but i need tips on how to actually get over him. i feel like i am not good enough for him, i feel used and worthless. biggest mistake of my life. what do you think i should do? i don't want to leave my job because i have a lot of friends there.
kimmi Posted December 8, 2009 Posted December 8, 2009 A 35 year old grocery manager at my work keeps trying to **** young girls who are 18,19 or early 20's. apparently he only had 1 gf in his life. i made the mistake of hooking up with him when i was drunk (i'm 22) and then i started to like him after that so i kept seeing him. now he is going after a 19 year old who has a boyfriend and i feel really hurt. they hang out and stuff, apparently she doesn't like him, but she seems to be leading him on if she keeps hanging out with him. i know we aren't a couple or anything but i can't help to feel jealous. i know i have to get over him, but i am having a hard time. I stopped hooking up with him, but i need tips on how to actually get over him. i feel like i am not good enough for him, i feel used and worthless. biggest mistake of my life. what do you think i should do? i don't want to leave my job because i have a lot of friends there. I feel bad for you and the mess that you have put yourself into. I have a few questions about this. How long have you worked there? When did you notice that he was trying to mess with the girl's at the store? I need this info to be able to help you. And even with that I am not to sure but I wil do my best to try and explain.
kimmi Posted December 8, 2009 Posted December 8, 2009 Okay, do not really need you to respond to this now. I have read your other posts and Sorry to be another one telling you this HE ONLY WANTS YOU FOR SEX!! He does not want you for anything else but that. I have a feeling that you will except this behavior and allow this and your heart will get so stomped on. If you allow this to continue then it is no one's fault but your own. Get rod of him and stop obsessing over him. WOW really pull yourself together and get a grip of this. I am sorry if you do not like this but I read all of your questions as well I have read the responses. If you can not get over him then find another job somewhere else and get out of his way... You owe yourself that... leave him alone and do not contact him... Work and sex friends never work out.
TaleSpin Posted December 8, 2009 Posted December 8, 2009 I used to work at a grocery store, and all the managers were into boning the young bag girls and checkers that worked there. Some as young as 16. 60 Minutes needs to do an exposé on pervy grocery store managers or something. Haha. Anyway, I would say you need to just tough it out, if you want to keep your job. Go out with people your own age. It'll be easier to forget about him if you find other people you're interested in.
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