confused&lost Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 I have dated my ex for a total of about three years. We dated 6 months, then thought it would be better as friends. Then a year later decided we both liked each other and wanted to give it another try. We were together for about two and a half years. This last year he has constantly brought up the same issue and I could tell it was bothering him more and more. We have discussed time and time again, then he'll feel reassured temporarily, then all these feelings come back again. The issue is that we go to different colleges and are five hours apart. My school is in a town that gets a lot of snow and we can be trapped here because of the mountain pass. We made it through our first year of college together, visiting each other a total of....five times maybe. That was difficult. Especially seeing other couples around you all the time and you know you're missing out. But wait....that's not the only issue. It also bothers him that I have been his only girlfriend and he has been my only boyfriend. It's cute to me and I know what I want. He is what I want. How come guys feel as though they have to see what else is out there? Why can you not deal with one person, when you say she is the one and the type of girl you want to be with? What else do you need to see? Do you need confirmation? Do you want to see how other people kiss? I DON'T GET IT!!! Someone explain this to me. Explain how distance becomes such an issue even when you work things out and talk to each other everyday and when you get to see each other it's like nobody in the world exists except him in that one moment. Explain how there is suddenly a need to test the waters even after saying you want to marry her.....
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