LouLou1986 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 im so heartbroken my ex-boyfriend doesnt want me back, he says he loves me and can see himself spending the rest of his life with me, but doesnt know if he wants to try again, he is the love of my life and he says he loves me its so confussing, i said to him i will move on find someone else but he doesnt want me to do that, and deep down nither do it, i dnt know how much longer i can wait till he sorts his head out
sean1970 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 i dnt know how much longer i can wait till he sorts his head out You don't, you work on yours. We all know that pain, we all feel for you, we will be here.
Author LouLou1986 Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 all that is saying to me is that i love him and want him back, he does have all sorts going on in his head, but i know i love him and want him, but mabe he doesnt want me that mite just be the simple fact
New Again Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Wow, your ex is totally messing with your head, and your heart. I'm sorry you're dealing with that. He is saying those things to keep you on the hook, without having to actually commit to you, or be responsible and answerable to you, and so he doesn't have to work at your relationship. The longer you listen to him, the longer it's going to take for you to detangle yourself when you're finally ready to do that. I suggest you don't mess around with "maybes" and "what ifs" and "if onlys".
Author LouLou1986 Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 today, we went out and brought my daughter (hes her stapdad loves him to bits) christmas presents, we spent £200 between us, had such a nice time flirting with each other and giveing me 'the look', but it just feels like he doesnt want to know im so so confussed......
Author LouLou1986 Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 the worst of it is i pushed him away we had stupid rows, then i used to pack his stuff and tell him to get out all of this is my fault
Kantor Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 the worst of it is i pushed him away we had stupid rows, then i used to pack his stuff and tell him to get out all of this is my fault I know how you feel, I too, am in a similar situational. We made the mistakes we made for a reason. Take the situation and learn from the mistakes you made. Take some time so you can make sure the problems don't reoccur.
Author LouLou1986 Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 its just the not knowing weather he is going to give me another chance or not, im so heartbroken, that if i didnt have my child i wud want to just sleep forever!!
billy356 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Dont fall for the games. What a luxury to break up with a girl but be able to convince her not to date anyone else and be able to hang out with her whenever I want! Wow that would make things so much easier FOR ME. It is a selfish act plain and simple. It is over, go through the process and move on..thats the best advice..it sucks but it is the truth...
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