scatterd Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 I have a question has MM ever gave OW his wedding ring.Husband took ring oneday when having problems to pawn shop.It took weeks for me to get him to get it out he comes home I looked at ring stones are littler and ring almost fits my left hand it does fit my right,The ring never fit me before it was too big and im 20 lbs lighter.So im wondering if that is a possibility.
Brokenlady Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 I think it would take a special kind of sick for an MM to give an OW his wedding ring, and for the OW to accept it. Maybe he had it melted down and made into some jewelry for the OW, but I can't see giving her his wedding ring. Maybe he just threw it out. My guess is he couldn't get it back and so he got one that was similar.
OWoman Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 I think it would take a special kind of sick for an MM to give an OW his wedding ring, and for the OW to accept it. Agree. Most likely the original got sold, and he got a new one as close as he could to the old one.
Author scatterd Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 Thanks for your replys im in shock about the ring i thought it meant something.but thanks
outofthedark Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 If you continue to look at it and wonder, it will drive you crazy. Be direct and ask him and let him know why you are asking...doesn't fit etc. A woman knows her jewelery
whichwayisup Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 I think it would take a special kind of sick for an MM to give an OW his wedding ring, and for the OW to accept it. I completely agree. It's sickening actually.
fooled once Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Sorry but I could barely understand the post. Whose ring was it? His or yours? Is he having an affair?
Author scatterd Posted December 3, 2009 Author Posted December 3, 2009 it was the ring of his I bought.Nothing has been the same for about three months he has done so much for me to beleive hes cheating on me I have wrote other post on it and things are not much better.He was a great guy now he hurts me constantly.Im considering leaving as soon as I an find away to get out.The pain is unbearable.
IfWishesWereHorses Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 Wouldn't there be a receipt if it was pawned?
Author scatterd Posted December 3, 2009 Author Posted December 3, 2009 He has not come up with it yet.
tami-chan Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 Oh i see...so you are asking if it is possible that your husband had his ring re-sized and gave HIS wedding ring to his OW? I guess it is possible. But you are leaving him....so let it be...if your husband had his wedding ring resized and gave it to OW, that's a new low....
skylarblue Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 Have you said anything to your H? My first words after seeing it would have been “this isn’t/doesn’t look like your ring”. Are you reluctant to ask? I find it strange that your H wouldn’t just say “guess what happened with the ring” or “at the pawn shop” if there was an innocent mix-up somehow. If you want to speculate, it is possible that the pawn shop lost/misplaced or scrapped it accidentally. Depending on how many weeks it was in pawn, he may have waited too long and defaulted. If he did give it an OW, I imagine there’s not much of a M left, in his eyes at least. The OW could want it as either a memento or trophy. Or maybe he gave it her to pawn or pawned it for money for her. Just some possibilities…
Fallen Angel Posted December 4, 2009 Posted December 4, 2009 My Mm didn't give me his wedding ring, I do not know if he has one, as I have never seen him wear one, and there has never been any indication that he wears one (no tan line, or mark where a ring would sit etc) but he has given me his military ring. A ring he wore daily until he gave it to me. If he had a wedding ring and offered it to me, I would not have taken it.
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