nobmagnet Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 I am sitting here thinking about the things I trully dont miss that my ex did. here are just a few. 1. farting constantly 2. spending hours on the loo 3. grinding his teeth in the night 4. his mess 5. rubbish sex 6. his put downs 7. his fat gut:mad: im working on the rest! What dont you miss?? neet x
soheartbroken Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 There is nothing that I don't miss. That's what makes this so hard.
Author nobmagnet Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 oh dear. I am lucky...............and his feet smelt too!
deadboy666 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 her pretentious friends having to go to church with her on xmas eve, hail satan
lostsoulmate Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 His thought process on how I should be "the woman" His constant put downs His smelly breath His gross morning habits - farting in bed and laughing about how much they smelt His I get to go out Friday, Saturday nights (you get Tuesday with the girls) His way or the highway complex This list could go on forever!!!!
Template Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 hmm... - Her constant need to be depressed, and to bring everyone down (especially ME) - Her very apparent attitude that her bff (ex-bf) needs, was more important than mine.
Ilovecake Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Constant burpingMoodinessHim getting mad when I did something for myself, like get a haircut, while he’s shelling out $400 for a bike which he never rides. Him ignoring my birthdays and telling me they don’t mean anything to him. Coming home from work and hearing what’s for dinner before I even put my purse down. Him getting drunk and doing extremely embarrassing things for attention. Constantly being told he’s going to move out. Him moving out and moving back in numerous times. His constant family drama. being dry humped while removing a very heavy hot roast out of the oven or cutting vegetables with a very sharp knifeSome of his abnoxious friendsBoring sexthe way he dresseshis double chinhis ability to always say something very inapropriate at the worst time possible. I could go on.
sean1970 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 being dry humped while removing a very heavy hot roast out of the oven or cutting vegetables with a very sharp knife The others I can understand, but this... How could you have a problem with these?
Ilovecake Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 The others I can understand, but this... How could you have a problem with these? Safety First
silic0ntoad Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Her lies. Now I can smoke a cigarette without having to worry about someone else thinking we quit. Tv. I hate watching TV. It's all she wanted to do. I haven't watched it since she left. Not going to the movies. She never wanted to go to the movies. Now I can go whenever I want. Other than that, I honestly can't even remember how we were together, so IDK. I can tell you one important thing. I don't miss her at all.
Author nobmagnet Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 lovecake sounds like my ex! And another thing............. regards to farting again His abiliry to fart for what seems like forever first thing in the morning and find it funny.
missmay Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 I won't miss..... The way he belittles me for being "just a waitress" eventhough I equally contribute to the running of our household. The way he can rack up 50 grand in debt in a little over a year buying stupid **** like atv's, a new tv etc...... How bad he is with money and never seems to have any so I always pay for our movies and snacks etc. He makes over 26 dollars per hour and still never has anything to show for it. His arrogant attitude towards people in social or monetary positions that he considers to be beneath him. His farting. The way he eats triple the amount that I do but contributes less than half of the grocery bills. Not only do I shop for the food I also prepare it. The way he sits on his fat ass playing games on his pc and leaves me to clean up even after I have shopped for and prepared the food. How he ignores his son and playes games on his pc and I play with his little boy 70% of the time he is here every other weekend. His lack of thought and effort on birthdays and other holidays His general lack of organizational skills and lack of cleanliness. His laziness. He would much rather play in his computer than interact with people or use his body to do anything. His lack of regard for his mother and his sister. His constant lying. How he actually thinks feminism is a dirty word. His complete lack of empathy or concern for humanity at large and his lack of care and interest in any kind of social issue. I could go on and on and on..........
Pentel Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 - her lying - that she didn't protect me when her mom was telling bad things bout me - that she couldn't see the guys that they are pervs "just because they're good with her"
red_cloud Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 - his small ****.. who am I kidding, of course I miss it. - he had really small hands.
WiseOne1 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Hmmm, Let's See 1. Her always taking her bestfriends side that disliked me. 2. Her allowing her bestfriend to get away with insulating me, when if she ever attempted to say anything about her friends bf, she would get her head chewed off. 3. She and her friend complaining that men are no good, but she HAD a good man. 4. Her having flashbacks on how her ex BF's did her wrong in the past, and her and her friend crying about ex's bfs together. 5. Wayyy too sensitive when it came to everyone else's needs but mines. 6. In a bad mood about family issues 60% of the time. 7. Allowing her ex bf to come back out of the blue, and destroy our relationship, and the act like I was suppose to support her. 8. Acted like no one else in the world has problems but her. 9. Suicidal 85% of the time, making suicidal comments, slitting her wrist, and as far as I see it she did it because I actually CARED and all of her other ex's would tell her "GO AHEAD" yep, they didn't care not 1 bit. 10. Thinking that the world revolved around her. 11. Turning into a POT head, I find that so unattractive in a women, and she didn't do it when we first started dated, however I would have never allowed it from anyone else. 12. After the breakup, acting like she still loved me and wanted me back, when she was just jealous that other women wanted me. 13. After the breakup, calling like she had missed me, and then disappearing after she finds out what’s going on in my life. 14. Her myspace page only showing traces of out relationship, but when she gets a new BF his pictures are EVERYWHERE!!! 15. When she was ever caught in her lies, she always said "Everything's not about you" 16. Trying to ruin any happy moments in my life, rather its landing a new job or passing a test, or on vacation, she would automatically start talking about suicide. 17. Her attempting to make me jealous all the time by bragging about what celebrities she finds sexy. 18. Her not being able to keep a job. 19. Her not thinking of the consequences before she makes a decision 20. Everyone's feeling always mattered, but it was always the HELL WITH ME ; she always said that "I would get over it"
Nikki Sahagin Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Not seeing me on weekends to go out with the boys - jee I feel special. At the end forgetting to give me cards for Valentines etc. when I made loads of effort for him. Being more friend oriented than girlfriend oriented. Laughing at things I took seriously.
Author nobmagnet Posted December 3, 2009 Author Posted December 3, 2009 guys, I went out on a "date" tonight it happened by accident and NO I am not looking or want a relationship.However................. hot hot hot! muhahahahah so comparing the two............. ex........small (hight before you get the wrong impression!) ex........shallow (this bloke has lived) ex.......finds his kids annoying(this bloke lives for his son has custody too) ex........money money money (this bloke doesnt care as long as he can have fun) well I am not looking for a relationship. It has shown me yet again that not all blokes are idiots.He is very sexy very funny far too bloody young for me but he left with a stiffy so my work is done. I might be 11 years older than him but he fancies me By the way he isnt looking for a relationship either if you think I have been shallow. we are both in the same pot. life out side what we all had..........probably sorry if i seemhappy but for the first time in 2+ years..........i think I am! neet x
Maggotface Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 1) telling me he forgave me for something and then still be resentful 2) talking out his work frustration on me
Seymore Posted December 3, 2009 Posted December 3, 2009 (edited) There were quite a few things, but one of the things that was just WRONG that drove me nuts was the fact that she would sometimes strip naked and sit next to me or lift her shirt and stick her boobs in my face or kiss me in a really sexy way and then when I tried to make a move she'd turn away and say she wasn't in the mood. When I'd try to have a talk with her and say it felt like teasing she'd get angry with me and claim I was making the whole relationship about sex. Riiiight. We had it once a month...how could it be all about sex when we weren't HAVING IT?!? Another thing was the things she'd hold over my head. If I asked my parents for advice on something, she'd say "I'm not marrying you and other people", and she'd say I should ask her for advice because we're going to have a family someday and we should be acting like it. When I told her I never changed a diaper before, she said "We're going to have problems, then", like it was a dealbreaker or something. I had dust on my freaking entertainment center and she says "I'm not marrying someone so sloppy". I'm sorry, my place may not be spic and span, but it's damn clean for a guy who lives by himself. Edited December 3, 2009 by Seymore
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