Space Ritual Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 I agree with Dexter wholeheartedely. RAT THEM OUT BIGTIME!!!!
skylarblue Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 As stated previously, what would be the motivation for sending the “evidence” 3yrs later especially when to OP is out of the picture? Revenge…3yrs later? Why would anyone whose M is finally getting back on track after an A want to relive all the hurt and drama. Would she be prepared for the possibility that she doesn’t have all the truth or retaliation by the OP? It just seems like a bad idea with nothing but bad potential. And why on earth would the H, who already seems to have pulled his ass out of the fire once, want to jump right back in by his OK for BS to do this. I don’t think it has anything to do with the BS and OP owing or not owing anybody anything. Why even bother. I think she should adopt the “happiness and success is the best revenge” attitude.
Fallen Angel Posted December 5, 2009 Posted December 5, 2009 It is just my opinion, but if it has been three years, and the OW is still so very much on the mind of the BW then the marriage is FAR from being hunkey-dorey.. All is not well in that marriage, and it is still very much in danger of imploding. I would suggest some serious IC and MC for your friend. A healed soul does not save evidence to be able to destroy someone for three years. Get your friend help, so that she can heal, three years of that kind of pain is far too long. ((hugs to your friend))
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