TapiocaDexterin Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 we are no longer together but the date is ingrained in my soul. do i try and sleep through it, or contact him and chat, or hide under my bed, or shop till im in debt...? what do u guys do on days like that?
TaraMaiden Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 why is it ingrained in your soul? It isn't in his.... he's moved on. Time you did the same, really.... don't sleep. DO NOT CONTACT HIM AND CHAT - like he'll care...he just wants to get you off the phone so he can go party....! Do not hide under your bed. It's probably only got a one-inch gap anyway.... Shop if you want, but not until you're in debt. Unless you know his card number. Then you can shop until he's in debt. do something to completely occupy your mind and something you never, ever would have done if you were still with him. Like ride a whale in the Arctic, or go fishing for goldfish, or shag a cab driver, or anything that goes completely against the grain but that you'll remember as the day that you rode a whale in the Arctic, or fished for a goldfish, or shagged a cab driver....oh yeah...and I broke up with, er....I dunno....some guy.....
Template Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 I was in your mode once. Many eons ago, an ex fiancee broke up with me. I remembered that date like its something I majored in college. I say I remembered for a good 5 years at least, even with moving on with my life, I remembered. Then one year, I just never thought of it, then another, then another, and today I don't even clearly remember what season it was when it happened. My point is, it's not ingrained in your soul, you'll get over it, you just gotta have hope. He is not the world. Go out and have fun... for all you know you might meet the love of your life on your way to the car, or accidentally spill coffee on him, or you may just meet see someone across a stadium you just have to meet.
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