babydreamer Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 I'm in love with my MM. He said that if i want, we could be together. But i can't leave my H! Beside passion and intimacy, i'm pretty happy with my marriage. I want to be with my MM but can't seem to let go of my "perfect" marriage. Everyone around me thinks that i'm the luckiest person on earth! What do i do and how to choose.
mybrowneyedgirl Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 you are not lucky. not by and means. this situation that seems so perfect now has no way of working out in any way but hurting at least one of the parties. i wouldnt wish a situation like that on anyone. im sorry, i realize this sounds harsh but its the truth. affairs hurt. it was only after i saw the pain in my husbands eyes that i could realize this.
1Angel Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Can't or won't leave your husband? Make a choice which man you want. No one can make the decision for you! If you are concerned about what other people think well then their opinions are controlling you.
RedDevil66 Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 You're not chosing which flavor of ice cream you want, these are people lives that are going to be horrible affected by your selfishness. My suggestion, leave your husband or tell him what you've done so he can make the decision, It's not really your choice anymore since you betrayed him
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