TaraMaiden Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 "I'll F*u*c*K you, but I am sooooooooooooooo 'Mr Commitmentphobe'.
Citizen Erased Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 "I want to sleep with other women but keep you around for the occasional shag and to f**k with your mind".
serialgf Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 "I don't want to commit to you and don't want you to bother me about it."
Boundary Problem Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 I guess being a man is something he has to focus on. It doesn't come naturally to him. He might have ED and is just shy about talking about it. Sounds like this train won't be leaving the station.
Author TapiocaDexterin Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 I guess being a man is something he has to focus on. It doesn't come naturally to him. He might have ED and is just shy about talking about it. Sounds like this train won't be leaving the station. this made me smile. whats ED?
Boundary Problem Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 this made me smile. whats ED? Hopefully you will never have to know. But trust me, you will know it when you see it. But seriously, do women ever wake up and say "I'm going to be my own woman today"???? No. We just are feminine every day. I don't see why men have to put so much effort into being a man. That they have to actively focus on it. Wierd.
Author TapiocaDexterin Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 Hopefully you will never have to know. But trust me, you will know it when you see it. ah ok now i get it, and yes, he does have that problem
Boundary Problem Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 ah ok now i get it, and yes, he does have that problem Even if he is just by himself?
Author TapiocaDexterin Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 Even if he is just by himself? dunno , i wasnt there lolz
Boundary Problem Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Well he has performance problems and he doesn't want to commit. ummmmm I give him credit for telling you, and not just disappearing. I admire people who communicate well. Too many people hide behind electronic devices these days. Sounds like he is putting you on the back burner while he scopes out other options, to be honest.
lostmirthfulness Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 " I want to be my own man for now" He wants to do his own thing right now. To me it sounds like when you guys have been affected by you, my guess is he is feeling that it hasn't be a positive for him, so now he wants to do his own thing. Feel free to leave him alone for awhile - in fact I would suggest NC completely. If he comes around he comes around, but don't let him being his own man drag you down in the process. Cut ties and let him do his thing, if your worth it to him he will come back, just make sure its not just to shag you.
always_searching Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 (edited) " I want to be my own man for now" "I'm a closeted homosexual and need time to find myself." Actually, one of my good homosexual guy friends said something similar to a girl he was simi-dating. I think it's just a general statement of desired distance in regard to a relationship, for whatever reason. Edited December 2, 2009 by always_searching
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