TapiocaDexterin Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Just bumped into my ex (not the most recent one, that I have posted about, but the one before that) twice in the space of 5 mins. The first time was coincidence and the second time i think he had doubled back for a second look lol. And best of all, i felt nothing, even though I had been completely devastated when he dumped me 3 years ago. I was just amused by seeing him the second time lol. Im pleased to be at this stage and hope it arrives soon with my recent ex.
USMCHokie Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 This is what happens when someone new comes into the picture...it just pushes the rest of the stack further back in your mind...when the next guy comes along, you'll eventually feel the same way about your most recent ex...
Boundary Problem Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Just bumped into my ex (not the most recent one, that I have posted about, but the one before that) twice in the space of 5 mins. The first time was coincidence and the second time i think he had doubled back for a second look lol. And best of all, i felt nothing, even though I had been completely devastated when he dumped me 3 years ago. I was just amused by seeing him the second time lol. Im pleased to be at this stage and hope it arrives soon with my recent ex. I'm curious - did you still feel sexual attraction for him? Do you think he felt it for you? You know - the sparks.
Author TapiocaDexterin Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 nope, nothing, not an urge to talk to him, call him, see if he still smelled the same, nada. he was just a guy i recognised who passed me twice. its great.
Author TapiocaDexterin Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 dont know if he fetlt anything for me, possibly curiosity at best as i NCd him a long time ago, including waving/smiling if we bumpo into each other.
Boundary Problem Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Interesting. Most ex's I don't feel any more sexual attraction for. But I think that is a function of having gotten to know them better. There is one who is married with a child and is flirting with me - just gross. What did I see in him? yuk. Bad values = yuk
Author TapiocaDexterin Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 that is gross, his poor wife, u had a lucky escape there
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