hopesndreams Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Good, cleansing tears. There is life after separation and divorce. If you, in no way, contributed to the demise of your M, as in you were cheated on, and are of pure heart and mind you will move forward. When adultery first rears its ugly head, the self-esteem takes a beating and self-confidence is non-existent. You doubt yourself and may even hate yourself and take the blame. You would do anything to make things OK to take away the doubt of yourself and the loss of self-respect. How could someone you love and trusted do such a horrible crime against you? Are you not worthy of love and respect? Are you stupid and ugly? What swayed them to seek anothers loving embrace? Is what you have to give not good enough? You love them with every ounce of your being and were committed. Why do they turn on you and commit the ultimate betrayal? There is something lacking in them. They themselves have low self-esteem and try to build themselves up by seeking and then obtaining the affections of another outside the M, or LTR. Do they love you when they do this? No. How could they love you when they no longer love themselves. Accept and set them free. They will get theirs in due time but be content in the knowledge it was not your doing. Embrace your life. You have but one. Do and be who you are. Good, honest and giving. Do not hurt others as they have hurt you. May God bless all who have done me wrong and that they may, one day, see and understand the damage they have done and seek forgiveness, before it's too late. For all those reading this as the holiday season is approaching, you will come through this and come out the other side; stronger, happier and thankful.
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