Ilovecake Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 It’s been a year since my break up. I swear I was completely over this guy. For the last few months I would run into him and it would make my stomach turn. He was the “I can’t believe I ever went out with him” guy. He posts on another forum I post on and everything he typed just made him sound so stupid. I couldn’t believe I was ever attaracted to this douchebag. Somebody told me last month that him and the girl we broke up over are no longer dating. Of course I was happy about his misery; after all he practically cheated on me with her and started dating her very shortly after our breakup. He also had me blocked on Facebook because I asked him to take pictures down that I took. I’m a photographer and didn’t want him using my work to pick up chicks, the photos were my property. Yesterday I noticed his posts on some of my friends pages, which means he unblocked me. I was curious as to why he decided to do that so I clicked on his profile and saw that he’s friends with his “girlfriend” again. I assume they are back together but don’t know for sure. Now I feel all sad and I feel like I miss him or something. What the heck is that about? I swear last week I wanted nothing to do with him; today I can’t stop thinking about him. Am I mentally ill?
Seymore Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Not at all, at least I hope not, because that means if you are, then I am. It's been almost a year for me too, and I still fight the urge to see her FB picture (I deactivated my entire account, I'm through with FB). I think it's natural, and it's a lot like having a dream about the person, for some reason they stick in your head all day. It'll pass. You still harbor feelings and that's normal, you haven't noticed because you've been doing well at healing.
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