northstar1 Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 Thank you guys for the kind words but I love her. I am going to do whatever it takes to rescue our relationship. We will be happy again. I know you are holding onto the hope that your love is worth fighting for. But it's clear she isn't. She is backburning you man, but you can't see it because you are still blinded by the past and what you had. She wants to make sure you are still there in case it doesn't work with the other dude. By sticking around and 'fighing for her', you are handing her the keys to everything. She can keep playing the "I don't know" card to keep you in limbo while she is out exploring new options. Let me ask you this. Say after the holidays, she comes back and says she wants to be only with you - how will you ever trust her again after this? By not kicking her to the curb, you've just demonstrated to her that you aren't going anywhere, so she has a license to try it again down the road. That's not right is it? I'm not trying to mean, but you need to try and realize what it is you are trying to rescue, because this seems like a girl who doesn't really want rescuing I wish you luck man, but look out for yourself.
ADF Posted December 6, 2009 Posted December 6, 2009 Thank you guys for the kind words but I love her. I am going to do whatever it takes to rescue our relationship. We will be happy again. Josh87, why did you even bother asking for advice? It sounds like you knew what you were going to do all along anyway. I don't get people like you. Good luck---you're gonna need it with this woman.
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