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Ex confusion, I want her, does she want me


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Ok so about 5 months my ex and I split because I left the area, (I was military) and we definetly didnt leave on I'll always love you terms if you know what I mean. Anyway i still love and think of her daily, but have always thought she hated me since the breakup. Well about 1 week ago she calls outta the blue to tell me there are no bad feelings between us. That night we ended up talking for hours. Now, everyday since then we talk for roughly an hour a day and she is the one who is calling. When i mentioned today I might head back to the area she's in because my hometown economy sucks, she didnt say a word. So I questioned it and her reply was that she didn't want to hear talk about it she prefers action. So that is interpretting in my head as either she doesn't think i'll go through with it and she doesn't want to make plans to move back in together and then have those plans fail, or she doesn't care what I do. She has also twice made it a point to discuss that she 'loved' and 'cared' about me. Is this just her reminissing on the past or is it something she's thinking about just like I am. She also made a point that she needs a new roommate and is going to have to move into a male friends place if she doesn't get one. Then she said she doesn't want to live with him cause they're just friends, and she feels so vulnerable right now it could lead to more.

 

Ok sorry bout length but thats pretty much the majority of it. This is just a very confusing time for me. I'm still head over heels for this girl. I don't know if these are signs that she still loves me or if its her just trying to be friends. Lemme know what you think please...

 

Thanks everyone

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