sunrise0814 Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 I am 27. I feel like I have a lot to offer! Never been married no children, and working on 2nd BA. I didnt start dating til I was 23. I have only had two boyfriends, and this 2nd one I am with I have been with him for over 4 and a half years (on and off). I already know I need to let him go. He is not good for me, he has all these girls he's "friends" with. almost exactly like Julia in the "wedding singer" (played by drew barrymore) when she was with that *******. Because I know my guy cheats on me. The Problem. Is that I have tried to leave him. I would go two weeks without talking to him, then he would shoot me a text like he misses me, and then I would go back. Then we would fight, I tell him no more. Next thing I know two or three weeks later I am back with him again. I love him, but at the same time I know I deserve better. It just hurts to know that he wont treat me the way I know I am supposed to be treated. So I already know I need to be away from him, I need some tips to make sure there is no going back. Its just so hard, but I know there are some tactics out there that can help!! Anyone? ps. And I have already tried to go out and meet new guys that doesnt work for me.. Anything please. Thank you!
CaliGuy Posted December 1, 2009 Posted December 1, 2009 Sounds like you have low self-esteem and self-respect. If you know this guy is bad for you, if you know he cheats on you, if you know you deserve better, you set your mind to it and you do it. You leave and you never look back. You implement NC and mean it. You look forward to being free to find the RIGHT guy for you. Read the guides in my signature file and post questions here if you have any. Cheers
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